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Mustadrak al-Hakim — Hadith 6863

قال ابن عمر: فحدثني عبد الواحد بن ميمون مولى عُرْوة، عن حَبيب مولى عُرْوة قال: لما ماتت خديجة حَزِنَ عليها النَّبِيّ ﷺ، فأتاه [جبريل] (3) بعائشةَ في مهدٍ، فقال: يا رسولَ الله، هذه تذهبُ ببعض حُزنك، وإنَّ في هذه خَلَفًا من خديجةَ. ثم ردَّها، فكان رسولُ الله ﷺ يختلفُ إلى بيت أبي بكر ويقول: "يا أمَّ رُومان، استوصِي بعائشةَ خيرًا، واحفظيني فيها"، فكان لعائشةَ بذلك منزلةٌ عند أهلها، ولا يشعرون بأمرِ الله فيها، فأتاهم رسولُ الله ﷺ في بعضِ ما كان يأتيهم، وكان لا يُخطِئُه يومٌ واحد إلَّا أن يأتيَ بيتَ أبي بكر منذ أسلمَ إلى أن هاجَر، فيجدُ عائشةَ مُتستِّرةً بباب أبي بكر، تبكي بُكاء حزينًا، فسألها فشَكَت أُمَّها وذكرت أنها تَولَع، فدمعت عينا رسولِ الله ﷺ، فدخل على أُمِّ رُومان فقال: "يا أمَّ رومان، ألم أُوصِك بعائشةَ أن تحفظيني فيها؟ " فقالت: يا رسولَ الله، إنها بلَّغتِ الصدِّيقَ عنا وأغضبته علينا، فقال النَّبِيُّ ﷺ: "وإنْ فعلَتْ"، قالت أمُّ رُومان: لا جَرَمَ، لا سُؤْتُها أبدًا. وكانت عائشةُ وُلدت السنةَ الرابعةَ من النُّبوة في أولها، وتزوَّجها رسولُ الله ﷺ في السنة العاشرة في شوَّال، وهي يومئذ ابنةُ ستِّ سنينَ، وتزوَّجها بعدَ سَوْدةَ بشهر (1).
It is narrated from Habib (the freed slave of Urwah) that when Sayyidah Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) died, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) was deeply grieved for her. So Jibril (peace be upon him) brought Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) to him in a cradle and said: O Messenger of Allah, she will be a means of removing your grief, and in her you will find a replacement for Sayyidah Khadijah. Then she was taken back. Thereafter the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) would frequently visit the house of Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) and would say: "O Umm Ruman, accept my counsel to treat Aishah well, and look after her for my sake." Because of this, Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) came to have a special standing with her family, although they did not know what Allah Almighty had decreed concerning her. One day the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came - and from the time he accepted Islam until the Hijrah, no day passed without his going to the house of Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) - and found Aishah hiding behind the door of Abu Bakr, weeping bitterly. He (peace and blessings be upon him) asked the reason, and she complained about her mother, that she was harsh with her. Hearing this, the eyes of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) filled with tears. He (peace and blessings be upon him) went to Umm Ruman and said: "O Umm Ruman, did I not counsel you about Aishah, that you should look after her for my sake?" She said: O Messenger of Allah, she told al-Siddiq (Abu Bakr) what we said, and he became angry with us. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Even if she did (still look after her)." Umm Ruman said: "Now I will never hurt her." Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) was born at the beginning of the fourth year of Prophethood, and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) married her in the month of Shawwal in the tenth year of Prophethood, when she was six years old; and this marriage took place one month after the marriage to Sayyidah Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her).
Hadith Reference مستدرکِ حاکم / كتاب معرفة الصحابة رضي الله تعالى عنهم / 6863
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسناده ضعيف
Hadith Takhrij «إسناده ضعيف، عبد الواحد بن ميمون ضعيف منكر الحديث، له ترجمة في "لسان الميزان"، وحبيب مولى عروة روى عنه جمع، وذكره ابن حبان في "الثقات"، وقال: يخطئ، والخبر مع ضعفه مرسل.» [ترقيم الرساله 6863] [ترقيم الشركة 6783]
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Adil Murshid et al.
(3) سقط من نسخنا الخطية، والمثبت من "طبقات ابن سعد".
Note / Clarification: (3) This text had dropped out of our handwritten manuscripts, and it has been established from "Tabaqat Ibn Sa'd".

(1) إسناده ضعيف، عبد الواحد بن ميمون ضعيف منكر الحديث، له ترجمة في "لسان الميزان"، وحبيب مولى عروة روى عنه جمع، وذكره ابن حبان في "الثقات"، وقال: يخطئ، والخبر مع ضعفه مرسل.
Grading: (1) Its chain is da'if (weak).
Technical note / Defect ('illah): Abd al-Wahid bin Maymun is weak and munkar al-hadith; his biography is in "Lisan al-Mizan". A group narrated from Habib, the freed slave of Urwah, and Ibn Hibban mentioned him in "al-Thiqat" and said: "He makes mistakes". Besides being weak, this report is also mursal.
وأخرجه ابن سعد في "الطبقات" 10/ 77 عن محمد بن عمر الواقدي، بهذا الإسناد.
Reference / Source: It was narrated by Ibn Sa'd in "al-Tabaqat" 10/ 77 from Muhammad bin Umar al-Waqidi, with this same chain.
تَولع: أي: تستخف بحقها فيؤذيها ذلك.
Note / Clarification: "Tawla'u": that is, she would make light of her right, and that would hurt her.
Source: Al-Mustadrak ala al-Sahihayn (Takhrij & Tahqiq: Shaykh Adil Murshid et al.), Page: 6863