The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) did not weep

It is narrated from Alqamah bin Waqqas that Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), Sayyiduna Abu Bakr al-Siddiq and Sayyiduna Umar were present with Sayyiduna Sa'd bin Mu'adh. By the One in whose hand is the soul of Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), I could tell that this was the sound of Abu Bakr's weeping and this was Sayyiduna Umar's, while I was in my room. She said: They were as Allah has said: "merciful among themselves." Alqamah said: "Mother, what did the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) do (in grief)?" Mother Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: His (peace and blessings be upon him) eye would not shed tears over anyone; but when he (peace and blessings be upon him) felt grief, he would take hold of his blessed beard.

Abu Uthman said: I brought Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) the news of the death of Sayyiduna al-Nu'man bin Muqarrin (may Allah be pleased with him), and he placed his hand on his head and began to weep.

Sayyiduna Ibn Abi Awfa (may Allah be pleased with him) said: If someone weeps or tears come from their eyes, there is no harm in it; but crying out in lament and weeping in the manner of wailing has been forbidden.

Nafi' said: Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) was in the market when he was informed of the death of Hujr. He undid the cloth wrapped around his knees and stood up, and sobbing overcame him.

It is narrated from Amir bin Sa'd al-Bajali that Sayyiduna Abu Mas'ud, Sayyiduna Thabit bin Zayd and Sayyiduna Qarazah bin Ka'b (may Allah be pleased with them) said: Permission has been given to weep over the deceased without wailing.

Amir bin Sa'd said: I went to Sayyiduna Abu Mas'ud and Sayyiduna Qarazah bin Ka'b (may Allah be pleased with them both), and both of them said: Indeed, we have been given permission to weep at a time of calamity.

Something similar is reported from Amir bin Sa'd.

It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that a funeral passed by the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), with women weeping over it. Sayyiduna Umar and I were with him (peace and blessings be upon him). Sayyiduna Umar rebuked the women who were weeping with the funeral, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "O son of al-Khattab, leave them, for the soul is stricken, the eyes are shedding tears, and the loss is recent."

Something similar is reported from Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him).