المعجم الكبير للطبراني
Al-Mu'jam al-Kabir (Tabarani)
مسند النساء
The Female Companions (may Allah be pleased with them)
حبيبة بنت سهل امرأة ثابت بن قيس بن شماس
Habibah bint Sahl (may Allah be pleased with her), wife of Thabit bin Qays bin Shammas (may Allah be pleased with him)
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حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الدَّبَرِيُّ، أَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ، أَنَا ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ، أَخْبَرَنِي يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ، أَنَّ عَمْرَةَ بِنْتَ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، حَدَّثَتْهُ: أَنَّ حَبِيبَةَ بِنْتَ سَهْلٍ، حُدِّثَتْ أَنَّ ثَابِتَ بْنَ قَيْسِ بْنِ شَمَّاسٍ، بَلَغَ مِنْهَا ضَرْبًا لَا يَدْرِي مَا هُوَ فَجَاءَتِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي الْغَلَسِ فَذَكَرَتْ لَهُ الَّذِي بِهَا، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «خُذْ مِنْهَا» فَقَالَتْ أَمَا أَنَّ الَّذِي أَعْطَانِي عِنْدِي كَمَا هُوَ قَالَ: «فَخُذْ مِنْهَا» فَأَخَذَ مِنْهَا، قَالَتْ عَمْرَةُ: فَقَعَدَتْ عِنْدَ أَهْلِهَا ،
Amrah bint Abd al-Rahman reported that it was related about Sayyidah Habibah bint Sahl (may Allah be pleased with her) that Sayyiduna Thabit bin Qays bin Shammas (may Allah be pleased with him) beat her so severely that it was not known how far it had gone. So she came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) in the darkness before dawn and told him (peace and blessings be upon him) of her condition. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said (to Thabit): "Take (it) from her." She said: "Listen! What he gave me is with me just as it was." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Then take (it) from her." So Thabit took it from her. Amrah said: Then she went to stay with her family.
حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ، ثنا الْقَعْنَبِيُّ، عَنْ مَالِكٍ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ عَمْرَةَ، أَنَّ حَبِيبَةَ بِنْتَ سَهْلٍ، حُدِّثَتْ أَنَّ ثَابِتَ بْنَ قَيْسِ بْنِ شَمَّاسٍ فَذَكَرَ نَحْوَهُ
A similar hadith is also narrated from Sayyidah Habibah bint Sahl (may Allah be pleased with her), that the same incident took place concerning Thabit bin Qays bin Shammas.
حَدَّثَنَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ دُحَيْمٍ، ثنا أَبِي، ثنا يَزِيدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ عَمْرَةَ، عَنْ حَبِيبَةَ بِنْتِ سَهْلٍ، امْرَأَةٍ كَانَتْ هَمَّ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنْ يُزَوِّجَهَا فَخَطَبَهَا ثَابِتَ بْنَ قَيْسِ بْنِ شَمَّاسٍ فَتَزَوَّجَهَا، وَكَانَ فِي خُلُقِ ثَابِتِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ شِدَّةٌ فَضَرَبَهَا فَأَصْبَحَتْ بِالْغَلَسِ عَلَى بَابِ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَخَرَجَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ: " مَنْ هَذِهِ؟ فَقَالَتْ: أَنَا حَبِيبَةُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ لَا أَنَا وَلَا ثَابِتٍ، فَجَاءَ ثَابِتٌ فِي أَثَرِهَا فَقَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «ضَرَبْتَهَا؟» فَقَالَ: نَعَمْ، ضَرَبْتُهَا، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «خُذْ مِنْهَا» فَقَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ عِنْدِي كُلَّ مَا أَعْطَانِيهِ، قَالَ: فَأَخَذَ مِنْهَا وَجَلَسَتْ فِي بَيْتِهَا "
Sayyidah Habibah bint Sahl (may Allah be pleased with her) was a woman whom the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) had intended to marry. Then Sayyiduna Thabit bin Qays bin Shammas (may Allah be pleased with him) proposed to her and married her. There was harshness in the temperament of Thabit bin Qays; he beat her, and she came in the darkness before dawn to the door of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came out and said: "Who is this?" She said: "O Messenger of Allah, I am Habibah. Neither I (can stay with Thabit) nor Thabit (with me)." Then Thabit came after her, and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Did you beat her?" He said: "Yes, I beat her." So the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Take (it) from her." Habibah said: "O Messenger of Allah, everything he gave me is with me." So Thabit took it from her, and she stayed in her house.
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ حَنْبَلٍ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي، ثنا عَبْدُ الْقُدُّوسِ بْنِ بَكْرِ بْنِ خُنَيْسٍ، ثنا حَجَّاجُ بْنُ أَرْطَاةَ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو، وَالْحَجَّاجِ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ أَبِي حَثْمَةَ، عَنْ عَمِّهِ سَهْلِ بْنِ أَبِي حَثْمَةَ، قَالَ: كَانَتْ حَبِيبَةُ بِنْتُ سَهْلٍ تَحْتَ ثَابِتِ بْنِ قَيْسِ بْنِ شَمَّاسٍ الْأَنْصَارِيِّ فَكَرِهَتْهُ، وَكَانَ رَجُلًا دَمِيمًا فَجَاءَتِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَاللهِ إِنِّي لَأَرَاهُ وَلَوْلَا مَخَافَةُ اللهِ لَبَزَقْتُ فِي وَجْهِهِ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " أَتَرُدِّينَ عَلَيْهِ حَدِيقَتَهُ الَّتِي أَصْدَقَكِ؟، قَالَتْ: نَعَمْ، فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْهِ فَرَدَّتْ عَلَيْهِ حَدِيقَتَهُ وَفَرَّقَ بَيْنَهُمَا، فَكَانَ ذَلِكَ أَوَّلُ خَلَعٍ فِي الْإِسْلَامِ "
Sayyiduna Sahl bin Abi Hathmah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Habibah bint Sahl (may Allah be pleased with her) was married to Thabit bin Qays bin Shammas al-Ansari (may Allah be pleased with him), and she came to dislike him; Thabit was an unattractive man. So she came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, when I see him, were it not for the fear of Allah, I would spit in his face." The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Will you return to him the garden that he gave you as your dowry (mahr)?" She said: "Yes." So he (peace and blessings be upon him) sent for Thabit, and Habibah returned the garden to him, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) separated the two of them. This was the first khul' in Islam.
