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Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 6042 — Salman returned from a journey, and Umar

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الصَّائِغُ الْمَكِّيُّ، ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَكَّارٍ الْعَيْشِيُّ، ثنا الْحَجَّاجُ بْنُ فَرُّوخَ الْوَاسِطِيُّ، ثنا ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ، عَنْ عَطَاءٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ قَالَ: قَدِمَ سَلْمَانُ مِنْ غِيبَةٍ لَهُ، فَتَلَقَّاهُ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ، فَقَالَ: أَرْضَاكَ لِلَّهِ عَبْدًا، قَالَ: فَتَزَوَّجَ فِي كِنْدَةَ، فَلَمَّا كَانَ اللَّيْلَةُ الَّتِي يَدْخُلُ عَلَى أَهْلِهِ إِذ الْبَيْتُ مُنَجَّدٌ، وَإِذَا فِيهِ نِسْوَةٌ، فَقَالَ: أَتَحَوَّلَتِ الْكَعْبَةُ فِي كِنْدَةَ أَمْ هِيَ حُمْرَةٌ؟ " أَمَرَنَا خَلِيلِي أَبُو الْقَاسِمِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: أَنْ لَا نَتَّخِذَ مِنَ الْمَتَاعِ إِلَّا أَثَاثًا كَأَثَاثِ الْمُسَافِرِ، وَلَا نَتَّخِذَ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ إِلَّا مَا نَنْكِحُ "، فَخَرَجَ النِّسْوَةُ وَدَخَلَ عَلَى أَهْلِهِ، فَقَالَ: يَا هَذِهِ أَتُعْصِينِي أَمْ تُطِيعِينِي؟ قَالَتْ: بَلْ أُطِيعُكَ فِيمَا شِئْتَ، قَالَ: " إِنَّ خَلِيلِي صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: أَمَرَنَا إِذَا دَخَلَ أَحَدُنَا بِأَهْلِهِ أَنْ يَقُومَ فَيُصَلِّي، ويَأْمُرَهَا أَنْ تُصَلِّيَ خَلْفَهُ، وَيَدْعُوَ وَتُؤَمِّنَ "، فَفَعَلَ وَفَعَلَتْ، فَلَمَّا جَلَسَ فِي مَجْلِسِ كِنْدَةَ قَالَ لَهُ رَجُلٌ مِنَ الْقَوْمِ: كَيْفَ أَصْبَحْتَ يَا أَبَا عَبْدِ اللهِ؟ كَيْفَ رَأَيْتَ أَهْلَكَ اللَّيْلَةَ؟ فَسَكَتَ فَعَادَ الثَّانِيَةَ، فَقَالَ لَهُ: وَمَا بَالُ أَحَدِكُمْ يَسْأَلُ عَمَّا وَارَتْهُ الْحِيطَانُ وَالْأَبْوَابُ؟ إِنَّمَا يَكْفِي أَحَدَكُمْ أَنْ يَسْأَلَ عَنِ الشَّيْءِ أُجِيبَ أَمْ سَكَتَ عَنْهُ
Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrated: Salman (may Allah be pleased with him) returned from a journey, and Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) received him and said: May Allah keep you pleased as His servant. The narrator said: Then he married into the tribe of Kindah. On the night he went in to his wife, he saw that the house had been decorated and that some women were present in it. He said: Has the Ka'bah moved to Kindah, or has it been struck by humrah (a disease)? My friend Abu al-Qasim (peace and blessings be upon him) commanded us to keep of belongings only as much as a traveller's belongings, and to keep of women only those whom we marry. So the women went out, and he went in to his wife. He said: O woman! Will you disobey me or obey me? She said: Rather, I will obey you in everything. He said: My friend (peace and blessings be upon him) commanded us that when one of us goes in to his wife, he should stand and pray and tell her to pray behind him, then he should supplicate and she should say Amin. So he did so, and she did so. When he sat in the gathering of Kindah, a man from the people asked him: O Abu Abdullah! How was your morning? How did you find your wife last night? He remained silent. The man asked again. He said: What is the matter with one of you that he asks about what walls and doors have concealed? It is enough for one of you to ask about something, and then either be answered or be met with silence.
Hadith Reference المعجم الكبير للطبراني / باب السين / 6042
Hadith Takhrij المعجم الكبير للطبراني (مطبوعہ): جلد 6، صفحہ 226، حدیث 6067