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Al-Matalib al-'Aliyah 1606 — The prohibition of a woman delaying

وَبِهَذَا الْإِسْنَادِ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " لَا يَحِلُّ لِامْرَأَةٍ أَنْ تَنَامَ حَتَّى تَعْرِضَ نَفْسَهَا عَلَى زَوْجِهَا " . قَالَ : وَكَيْفَ تَعْرِضُ نَفْسَهَا عَلَى زَوْجِهَا ؟ قَالَ : " تَخْلَعُ ثِيَابَهَا ، وَتَدْخُلُ مَعَهُ فِي لِحَافِهِ ، فَتُلْزِقُ جِلْدَهَا بِجِلْدِهِ ، فَإِذَا فَعَلَتْ ذَلِكَ فَقَدْ عَرَضَتْ ".
With this same chain it is narrated that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It is not lawful for a woman to go to sleep (at night) until she has offered herself to her husband." It was asked: How should she offer herself to her husband? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "She takes off her (outer) clothes, enters under his quilt with her husband and brings her skin into contact with his skin; when she has done this, she has indeed offered herself."
The imams and commentators of hadith say at this point that the purpose of this prophetic instruction is to see to the husband's emotional and physical contentment within the cloak of modesty in married life, so that the relationship between husband and wife becomes stable and the husband's chastity and purity are preserved.
Hadith Reference المطالب العالية بزوائد المسانيد الثمانية / كتاب النكاح / 1606
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