مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد
Majma' al-Zawa'id
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
بَابُ فِيمَنْ يَدْعُوهَا زَوْجُهَا فَتَعْتَلُّ .

A woman whose husband calls her and she makes excuses

3 hadith

Toggle above to switch between keyword search and direct hadith lookup

عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ : لَعَنَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - الْمُسَوِّفَةَ وَالْمُفَسِّلَةَ .
فَأَمَّا الْمُسَوِّفَةُ : فَالَّتِي إِذَا أَرَادَهَا زَوْجُهَا قَالَتْ : سَوْفَ ، الْآنَ .
وَأَمَّا الْمُفَسِّلَةُ : الَّتِي إِذَا أَرَادَهَا زَوْجُهَا قَالَتْ : إِنِّي حَائِضٌ . وَلَيْسَتْ بِحَائِضٍ .
رَوَاهُ أَبُو يَعْلَى ، وَفِيهِ يَحْيَى بْنُ الْعَلَاءِ ، وَهُوَ ضَعِيفٌ مَتْرُوكٌ .
Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) cursed the musawwifah and the mufassilah.
(The narrator says:) As for the musawwifah, it refers to a woman whose husband wishes to be intimate with her and she says: "We will do it in a little while." As for the word mufassilah, it refers to a woman whose husband wishes to be intimate with her and she says that she is menstruating, although she is not menstruating.
Imam Abu Ya'la recorded it. Its chain contains a narrator, Yahya bin al-Ala', who is da'if (weak) and matruk (abandoned).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7570
Hadith Grading محدثین: ضعیف جداً
Hadith Takhrij «اخرجه ابو يعلى فى المسند (6467)»
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - قَالَ : " لَعَنَ اللَّهُ الْمُسَوِّفَاتِ " قِيلَ : وَمَا الْمُسَوِّفَاتُ يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ ؟ قَالَ : " الَّتِي يَدْعُوهَا زَوْجُهَا إِلَى فِرَاشِهَا فَتَقُولُ : سَوْفَ . حَتَّى تَغْلِبَهُ عَيْنَاهُ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْأَوْسَطِ ، وَالْكَبِيرِ مِنْ طَرِيقِ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ مَيْسَرَةَ الْأَشْجَعِيِّ عَنْ أَبِيهِ وَمَيْسَرَةُ ضَعِيفٌ ، وَلَمْ أَرَ لِأَبِيهِ مِنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ سَمَاعًا .
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "May Allah curse the musawwifat." It was said: "O Prophet of Allah! Who are the musawwifat?" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The woman whose husband calls her to bed and she says: 'In a little while,' until her husband falls asleep."
Imam al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat and al-Mu'jam al-Kabir through Ja'far bin Maysarah from his father. The narrator Maysarah is da'if (weak), and I have not seen anything about his father having heard from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7571
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسناده ضعیف
Hadith Takhrij «أخرجه إتحاف الخيرة المهرة بزوائد المسانيد العشرة برقم: 3171»
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - : " مَا مِنِ امْرَأَةٍ يَطْلُبُ زَوْجُهَا مِنْهَا حَاجَةً فَتَأْبَى فَيَبِيتُ وَهُوَ عَلَيْهَا غَضْبَانٌ إِلَّا بَاتَتْ تَلْعَنُهَا الْمَلَائِكَةُ حَتَّى يُصْبِحَ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْأَوْسَطِ ، وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ .
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Any woman whose husband expresses his desire for intimacy with her and she refuses, and the husband spends the night angry with her, that woman spends the night in such a state that the angels curse her until morning."
Imam al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat, and its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7572
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسنادہ صحیح