مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد
Majma' al-Zawa'id
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
بَابُ كِتْمَانِ مَا يَكُونُ بَيْنَ الرَّجُلِ وَأَهْلِهِ .
Concealing what takes place between a man and his wife
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عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ يَزِيدَ أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - وَالرِّجَالُ وَالنِّسَاءُ قُعُودٌ عِنْدَهُ فَقَالَ : " لَعَلَّ رَجُلًا يَقُولُ مَا يَفْعَلُ بِأَهْلِهِ . وَلَعَلَّ امْرَأَةً تُخْبِرُ بِمَا فَعَلَتْ مَعَ زَوْجِهَا ؟ " فَأَزَمَّ الْقَوْمُ فَقُلْتُ : أَيْ وَاللَّهِ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّهُمْ لَيَفْعَلُونَ ، وَإِنَّهُنَّ لَيَفْعَلْنَ . قَالَ : " فَلَا تَفْعَلُوا ، فَإِنَّمَا مَثَلُ ذَلِكَ مَثَلُ شَيْطَانٍ لَقِيَ شَيْطَانَةً فَغَشِيَهَا وَالنَّاسُ يَنْظُرُونَ " .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ ، وَالطَّبَرَانِيُّ ، وَفِيهِ شَهْرُ بْنُ حَوْشَبٍ ، وَحَدِيثُهُ حَسَنٌ ، وَفِيهِ ضَعْفٌ .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ ، وَالطَّبَرَانِيُّ ، وَفِيهِ شَهْرُ بْنُ حَوْشَبٍ ، وَحَدِيثُهُ حَسَنٌ ، وَفِيهِ ضَعْفٌ .
Sayyidah Asma' bint Yazid (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she was with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and some men and women were sitting with him. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Does it happen that sometimes a man relates what he does with his wife, and sometimes a woman relates what she has done with her husband?" The people remained silent. I said: "Yes! By Allah! O Messenger of Allah! The men do this, and the women do it too." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Do not do so! Its likeness is that of a male devil who meets a female devil and begins to have intercourse with her while people are watching."
Imam Ahmad and Imam al-Tabarani recorded it. Its chain contains a narrator, Shahr bin Hawshab; his chain is hasan (good), and there is weakness in him.
Imam Ahmad and Imam al-Tabarani recorded it. Its chain contains a narrator, Shahr bin Hawshab; his chain is hasan (good), and there is weakness in him.
وَعَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - قَالَ : " أَلَا عَسَى أَحَدُكُمْ أَنْ يَخْلُوَ بِأَهْلِهِ يُغْلِقُ بَابًا ، ثُمَّ يُرْخِي سِتْرًا ، ثُمَّ يَقْضِي حَاجَتَهُ ، ثُمَّ إِذَا خَرَجَ حَدَّثَ أَصْحَابَهُ بِذَلِكَ ، أَلَا تَخْشَى إِحْدَاكُنَّ أَنْ تُغْلِقَ بَابَهَا وَتُرْخِيَ سِتْرَهَا فَإِذَا قَضَتْ حَاجَتَهَا حَدَّثَتْ صَوَاحِبَهَا ؟ " فَقَالَتِ امْرَأَةٌ سَفْعَاءُ الْخَدَّيْنِ : وَاللَّهِ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّهُنَّ لَيَفْعَلْنَ ، وَإِنَّهُمْ لَيَفْعَلُونَ . قَالَ : " فَلَا تَفْعَلُوا ، فَإِنَّ مَثَلَ ذَلِكَ مَثَلُ شَيْطَانٍ لَقِيَ شَيْطَانَةً عَلَى قَارِعَةِ الطَّرِيقِ فَقَضَى حَاجَتَهُ مِنْهَا ، ثُمَّ انْصَرَفَ وَتَرَكَهَا " .
رَوَاهُ الْبَزَّارُ عَنْ رَوْحِ بْنِ حَاتِمٍ ، وَهُوَ ضَعِيفٌ ، وَبَقِيَّةُ رِجَالِهِ ثِقَاتٌ .
رَوَاهُ الْبَزَّارُ عَنْ رَوْحِ بْنِ حَاتِمٍ ، وَهُوَ ضَعِيفٌ ، وَبَقِيَّةُ رِجَالِهِ ثِقَاتٌ .
Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) reports this saying of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): "It may well happen that a man will be alone with his wife; he will close the door, then let down the curtain, then fulfil his desire, and then he will go out and tell his companions about it. Does not any one of you women fear that she closed her door and let down her curtain, and when she has fulfilled her need, she then tells her female friends?" A woman whose cheeks were dark (or a blackish red) said: "By Allah! O Messenger of Allah! The women do this and the men do it too." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Do not do so, for its likeness is that of a male devil who meets a female devil on the road, fulfils his desire with her, then goes off and leaves her there."
Imam al-Bazzar recorded it through Rawh bin Hatim, who is da'if (weak); the rest of its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
Imam al-Bazzar recorded it through Rawh bin Hatim, who is da'if (weak); the rest of its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
وَعَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - قَالَ : " الشِّبَاعُ حَرَامٌ " .
قَالَ ابْنُ لَهِيعَةَ : يَعْنِي بِهِ : الَّذِي يَفْتَخِرُ بِالْجِمَاعِ .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ وَ أَبُو يَعْلَى ، وَفِيهِ دَرَّاجٌ وَثَّقَهُ ابْنُ مَعِينٍ ، وَضَعَّفَهُ جَمَاعَةٌ . قَالَ ابْنُ الْأَثِيرِ : السِّبَاعُ بِالسِّينِ الْمُهْمَلَةِ وَقِيلَ : بِالْمُعْجَمَةِ .
قَالَ ابْنُ لَهِيعَةَ : يَعْنِي بِهِ : الَّذِي يَفْتَخِرُ بِالْجِمَاعِ .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ وَ أَبُو يَعْلَى ، وَفِيهِ دَرَّاجٌ وَثَّقَهُ ابْنُ مَعِينٍ ، وَضَعَّفَهُ جَمَاعَةٌ . قَالَ ابْنُ الْأَثِيرِ : السِّبَاعُ بِالسِّينِ الْمُهْمَلَةِ وَقِيلَ : بِالْمُعْجَمَةِ .
Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) reports this saying of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): "Al-shiba' is forbidden." Ibn Lahi'ah says: By this the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) meant boasting about intercourse.
Imam Ahmad and Imam Abu Ya'la recorded it. Its chain contains a narrator, Darraj, whom Yahya bin Ma'in declared thiqah (trustworthy) and a group declared da'if (weak). Ibn al-Athir says: The word is "al-siba'", with the letter "sin", and according to one view it is with the letter "shin".
Imam Ahmad and Imam Abu Ya'la recorded it. Its chain contains a narrator, Darraj, whom Yahya bin Ma'in declared thiqah (trustworthy) and a group declared da'if (weak). Ibn al-Athir says: The word is "al-siba'", with the letter "sin", and according to one view it is with the letter "shin".
