مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد
Majma' al-Zawa'id
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
بَابُ عَلَيْكَ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ .
You must choose the religious woman
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عَنْ جَابِرٍ قَالَ : تَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَةً عَلَى عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - قَالَ : " يَا جَابِرُ تَزَوَّجْتَ ؟ " قُلْتُ : نَعَمْ . قَالَ : " أَبِكْرًا أَوْ ثَيِّبًا ؟ " قَالَ : قُلْتُ : ثَيِّبًا . قَالَ : " أَلَا بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُكَ ؟ " . قَالَ : قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ كُنْ لِي أَخَوَاتٌ فَخَشِيتُ أَنْ يَدْخُلَ بَيْنِي وَبَيْنَهُنَّ . قَالَ : " إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ تُنْكَحُ لِدِينِهَا وَمَالِهَا وَجِمَالِهَا ، فَعَلَيْكَ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ تَرِبَتْ يَدَاكَ " .
قُلْتُ : هُوَ فِي الصَّحِيحِ خَلَا مِنْ قَوْلِهِ : " تُنْكَحُ الْمَرْأَةُ لِثَلَاثٍ . " . إِلَى آخِرِهِ .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ ، وَرِجَالُهُ رِجَالُ الصَّحِيحِ .
قُلْتُ : هُوَ فِي الصَّحِيحِ خَلَا مِنْ قَوْلِهِ : " تُنْكَحُ الْمَرْأَةُ لِثَلَاثٍ . " . إِلَى آخِرِهِ .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ ، وَرِجَالُهُ رِجَالُ الصَّحِيحِ .
Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: In the blessed time of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), I married a woman. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "O Jabir! Have you married?" I said: "Yes!" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "A virgin or a previously married woman?" I said: "A previously married woman." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Why not a virgin, so that you could play with her and she could play with you?" Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) says: I said: "O Messenger of Allah! I have sisters, and I fear that she might come between me and my sisters." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A woman is married for her religion, or her wealth, or her beauty; so you must choose the religious one, may your hands be covered in dust!" (Allamah al-Haythami says:) I say:
This narration is mentioned in the "Sahih", but without these words: "A woman is married for three things" to the end; the words from there to the end are not in it.
Ahmad recorded it, and its narrators are the narrators of the Sahih.
This narration is mentioned in the "Sahih", but without these words: "A woman is married for three things" to the end; the words from there to the end are not in it.
Ahmad recorded it, and its narrators are the narrators of the Sahih.
وَعَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - : " تُنْكَحُ الْمَرْأَةُ عَلَى إِحْدَى خِصَالٍ لِجِمَالِهَا وَمَالِهَا وَخُلُقِهَا وَدِينِهَا ، فَعَلَيْكَ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ وَالْخُلُقِ تَرِبَتْ يَمِينُكَ " .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ ، وَأَبُو يَعْلَى ، وَالْبَزَّارُ ، وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ ، وَأَبُو يَعْلَى ، وَالْبَزَّارُ ، وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ .
Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A woman is married for one of these reasons: her beauty, or her wealth, or her character, or her religion; so you must choose the woman who is religious and of good character, may your hand be covered in dust!"
Ahmad, Abu Ya'la and al-Bazzar recorded it, and its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
Ahmad, Abu Ya'la and al-Bazzar recorded it, and its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
وَعَنْ عَوْفِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ الْأَشْجَعِيِّ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - : " عُودُوا الْمَرِيضَ وَاتَّبِعُوا الْجِنَازَةَ ، وَلَا عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ لَا تَأْتُوا الْعُرْسَ ، وَلَا عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ لَا تَنْكِحُوا الْمَرْأَةَ مِنْ أَجْلِ حُسْنِهَا فَعَلَّ أَنْ لَا تَأْتِيَ بِخَيْرٍ ، وَلَا عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ لَا تَنْكِحُوا الْمَرْأَةَ لِكَثْرَةِ مَالِهَا وَعَلَّ مَالَهَا أَنْ لَا يَأْتِيَ بِخَيْرٍ ، وَلَكِنْ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ وَالْأَمَانَةِ فَاتَّبِعُوهُنَّ " .
رَوَاهُ الْبَزَّارُ ، وَفِيهِ يَزِيدُ بْنُ عِيَاضٍ ، وَهُوَ مَتْرُوكٌ .
رَوَاهُ الْبَزَّارُ ، وَفِيهِ يَزِيدُ بْنُ عِيَاضٍ ، وَهُوَ مَتْرُوكٌ .
Sayyiduna Awf bin Malik al-Ashja'i (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Visit the sick and follow the funeral. There is no harm upon you if you do not attend a wedding, and there is no harm upon you if you do not marry a woman because of her beauty, for it may be that she does not bring any good; and there is no harm upon you if you do not marry a woman because of the abundance of her wealth, for it may be that her wealth does not bring any good. Rather, seek out (or give preference to) women of religion and trustworthiness."
Al-Bazzar recorded it; its chain contains a narrator, Yazid bin Iyad, who is matruk (abandoned).
Al-Bazzar recorded it; its chain contains a narrator, Yazid bin Iyad, who is matruk (abandoned).
