Sayyiduna Mu'adh bin Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) attended the marriage of one of his Companions and supplicated: "With goodness, blessing and harmony, with good fortune and abundance in provision. May Allah Almighty bless you!" (Then he said:) "Beat the daff at his head." So a daff was brought and beaten at his head. Meanwhile, platters arrived with fruit and sugar on them, and they were scattered over him, but the people held back their hands. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "What is the matter with you, why do you not snatch them up?" The people said: Have you not forbidden snatching? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I forbade you from snatching (spoils) in armies; as for weddings, it is not (forbidden)." Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) talked with the people, and the people talked with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him).
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir; in its chain it is mentioned that Hazim, the freed slave of Banu Hashim, narrated it from Lumazah; he is not Ibn Zabbar, this one is from a later period. I have not found anyone who has written the biographies of either of them, and the rest of its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat in a more complete form than this, with a chain containing a narrator, Bishr bin Ibrahim, who is a fabricator of hadith (wadda'), and that chain is different from this chain.
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It is reported about Sayyiduna Abu Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) that he used to forbid snatching at weddings.
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir; its chain contains a narrator, Ishaq bin Abdullah bin Humran, and I have not found anyone who has written his biography, and the rest of its narrators are the narrators of the Sahih.