Husayn bin Mihsan narrates: His paternal aunt came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked her: Do you have a husband? She said: Yes. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: How do you relate to him? The woman said: I do not fall short in any of his affairs, except for what I am unable to do. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: How do you regard him? He is your Paradise and he is your Hell.
Ahmad recorded it, and al-Tabarani in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir and al-Mu'jam al-Awsat, except that in his version the words are: "So look at how you are towards him." Its narrators are the narrators of the Sahih, except the narrator Husayn, and he is thiqah (trustworthy).
Hadith Referenceمجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7637