Majma al-Zawaid — Hadith 7551

Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked one of his companions: "Have you visited a sick person today?" He replied: "No." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "Have you given anything in charity?" He replied: "No." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "Have you prayed a funeral prayer?" He said: "No." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "Have you been intimate with your wife?" He said: "No." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "You should have done so; it would have been charity from you to her." The narrator says: This was on a Friday.
Imam al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. Its chain contains a narrator, al-Nadr bin Asim bin Hilal al-Bariqi, whom I do not know. The rest of its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).