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مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد
Majma' al-Zawa'id
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
بَابُ الِاسْتِئْمَارِ .
Seeking consent
Majma al-Zawaid — Hadith 7465
اُردوEn
وَعَنْ عُمَرَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - كَانَ إِذَا أَرَادَ أَنْ يُزَوِّجَ امْرَأَةً مِنْ نِسَائِهِ يَأْتِيهَا مِنْ وَرَاءِ الْحِجَابِ فَيَقُولُ لَهَا : " يَا بُنَيَّةُ إِنَّ فُلَانًا خَطَبَكِ ، فَإِنْ كَرِهْتِيهِ فَقُولِي : لَا ، فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَسْتَحِي أَحَدٌ أَنْ يَقُولَ : لَا . وَإِنْ أَحْبَبْتِ ، فَإِنَّ سُكُوتَكِ إِقْرَارٌ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ ، وَفِيهِ يَزِيدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ النَّوْفَلِيُّ ، وَهُوَ مَتْرُوكٌ ، وَقَدْ وَثَّقَهُ ابْنُ مَعِينٍ فِي رِوَايَةٍ .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ ، وَفِيهِ يَزِيدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ النَّوْفَلِيُّ ، وَهُوَ مَتْرُوكٌ ، وَقَدْ وَثَّقَهُ ابْنُ مَعِينٍ فِي رِوَايَةٍ .
Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: When the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) was to arrange the marriage of one of the women of his family, he would come to her from behind the curtain and say to her: "O my daughter! So-and-so has proposed to you. If you dislike him, say: No; for no one is ashamed to say 'No'. And if you like him, your silence will count as consent."
At-Tabarani recorded it; its chain contains Yazid bin Abd al-Malik al-Nawfali, who is matruk (abandoned), though Yahya bin Ma'in declared him trustworthy in one report.
At-Tabarani recorded it; its chain contains Yazid bin Abd al-Malik al-Nawfali, who is matruk (abandoned), though Yahya bin Ma'in declared him trustworthy in one report.
