Sayyiduna Rabi' al-Ansari (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came to visit the nephew of Jabr al-Ansari while he was ill. His family began weeping over him, so Jabr said to them: "Do not hurt the Messenger of Allah with your voices." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Let these women weep as long as he is alive; when it becomes due (that is, when he dies), then these women should be silent." (Allamah al-Haythami says:) I say:
This narration will come in full in the chapter on Jihad, if Allah wills.
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir, and its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
Hadith Referenceمجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب الجنائز / 4042