السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
باب: الزوجان يختلفان في الإصابة فيكون القول قوله إن كان ثيبا
When the spouses differ over whether intercourse took place, his word is accepted if she was previously married
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قَالَ الشَّافِعِيُّ رَحِمَهُ اللهُ: لِأَنَّهَا تُرِيدُ فَسْخَ نِكَاحِهِ، وَعَلَيْهِ الْيَمِينُ.
Imam al-Shafi'i (may Allah have mercy on him) said: "Because she (the woman) wants her marriage to him annulled, and (in this case) the oath is upon him (the husband)."
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْمُقْرِئُ، أنبأ الْحَسَنُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقَ، ثنا يُوسُفُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ الْقَاضِي، ثنا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ، ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ، عَنْ أَيُّوبَ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ، أَنَّ امْرَأَةً دَخَلَتْ عَلَى عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا وَعَلَيْهَا خِمَارٌ أَخْضَرُ فَشَكَتْ إِلَيْهَا زَوْجَهَا وَأَرَتْهَا ضَرْبًا بِجِلْدِهَا، فَدَخَلَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَذَكَرَتْ لَهُ ذَلِكَ عَائِشَةُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا وَقَالَتْ: مَا تَلْقَاهُ نِسَاءُ الْمُسْلِمِينَ مِنْ أَزْوَاجِهِنَّ، وَقَالَتْ لَلَّذِي يَجْلِدُهَا أَشَدُّ خُضْرَةً مِنْ خِمَارِهَا قَالَ عِكْرِمَةُ: وَالنِّسَاءُ يَنْصُرُ بَعْضُهُنَّ بَعْضًا، وَجَاءَ الرَّجُلُ فَقَالَتْ: مَا الَّذِي عِنْدَهُ بِأَغْنَى عَنِّي مِنْ هَذَا، وَقَالَتْ بِطَرَفِ ثَوْبِهَا فَقَالَ الرَّجُلُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَاللهِ إِنِّي لَأَنْفُضُهَا نَفْضَ الْأَدِيمِ، وَلَكِنَّهَا نَاشِزٌ تُرِيدُ رِفَاعَةَ وَكَانَ رِفَاعَةُ زَوْجَهَا قَدْ طَلَّقَهَا قَبْلَ ذَلِكَ، فَقَالَ: " إِنَّهُ إِنْ كَانَ كَمَا تَقُولِينَ لَمْ تَحِلِّي لَهُ حَتَّى يَذُوقَ مِنْ عُسَيْلَتِكِ وَتَذُوقِي مِنْ عُسَيْلَتِهِ ".
Ikrimah (may Allah have mercy on him) said: A woman came to Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) wearing a green head-covering. She complained about her husband and also showed the mark of a beating on her skin. When the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came in, Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) told the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "Muslim women suffer so much from their husbands!" And she said: "There were green bruises on her skin, greener than her head-covering." Ikrimah (may Allah have mercy on him) said: Women support one another. When the man also came, the woman said: "What he has is of no use to me (i.e., he does not fulfil my need)," and taking hold of the edge of her garment she said: "It is like this." The man said: "By Allah, I shake her out the way leather is shaken out, but she intends disobedience, and she wants Rifa'ah," who had divorced her earlier. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If the matter is like this, then it is not lawful for you until you taste his sweetness and he tastes yours."
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الطَّاهِرِ الْفَقِيهُ، وَأَبُو سَعِيدِ بْنُ أَبِي عَمْرٍو قَالَا: ثنا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ، ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ الصَّغَانِيُّ، ثنا أَشْهَلُ بْنُ حَاتِمٍ، ثنا عُيَيْنَةُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ: " جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةٌ إِلَى سَمُرَةَ بْنِ جُنْدُبٍ فَذَكَرَتْ أَنَّ زَوْجَهَا لَا يَصِلُ ⦗٣٧٢⦘ إِلَيْهَا فَسَأَلَ الرَّجُلَ قَالَ: فَأَنْكَرَ ذَلِكَ وَكَتَبَ فِيهِ إِلَى مُعَاوِيَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ: فَكَتَبَ أَنْ زَوِّجْهُ امْرَأَةً مِنْ بَيْتِ الْمَالِ لَهَا حَظٌّ مِنْ جَمَالٍ وَدِينٍ فَإِنْ زَعَمَتْ أَنَّهُ يَصِلُ إِلَيْهَا فَاجْمَعْ بَيْنَهُمَا وَإِنْ زَعَمَتْ أَنَّهُ لَا يَصِلُ إِلَيْهَا فَفَرِّقْ بَيْنَهُمَا، قَالَ: نَفْعَلُ وَأَتَى بِهِمَا عِنْدَهُ فِي الدَّارِ قَالَ: فَلَمَّا أَصْبَحَ دَخَلَ النَّاسُ وَدَخَلَتْ قَالَ: فَجَاءَ الرَّجُلُ عَلَيْهِ أَثَرُ صُفْرَةٍ، فَقَالَ لَهُ: مَا فَعَلْتَ قَالَ: فَعَلْتُ وَاللهِ حَتَّى خَضْخَضْتُهُ فِي الثَّوْبِ مِنْ وَرَائِهَا قَالَ: وَجَاءَتِ الْمَرْأَةُ مُتَقَنِّعَةً فَقَامَتْ عِنْدَ رِجْلِهِ قَالَ: فَسَأَلَهَا وَعَظُمَ عَلَيْهَا، فَقَالَتْ: لَا شَيْءَ، فَقَالَ: أَمَا يَنْتَشِرُ أَمَا يَدْنُو قَالَتْ: بَلَى وَلَكِنَّهُ إِذَا دَنَا جَاءَ شَرُّهُ، فَقَالَ سَمُرَةُ خَلِّ سَبِيلَهَا يَا مُخَضْخَضُ "، هَذَا رَأْيٌ مِنْ مُعَاوِيَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ، وَقَدْ يَكُونُ الرَّجُلُ عِنِّينًا مِنِ امْرَأَةٍ وَلَا يَكُونُ عِنِّينًا مِنْ أُخْرَى، وَمُتَابَعَةُ السُّنَّةِ أَوْلَى، وَقَدْ قَضَى رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِالْيَمِينِ عَلَى مَنْ أَنْكَرَ، وَالزَّوْجُ يُنْكِرُ مَا يُدَّعَى عَلَيْهِ مِنَ الْعُنَّةِ، وَرُوِّينَا عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ دِينَارٍ أَنَّهُ قَالَ: مَا زِلْنَا نَسْمَعُ أَنَّهُ إِذَا أَصَابَهَا مَرَّةً فَلَا كَلَامَ لَهَا وَلَا خُصُومَةَ، وَرُوِيَ فِي ذَلِكَ عَنْ طَاوُسٍ، وَالْحَسَنِ، وَالزُّهْرِيِّ.
Uyaynah bin Abd al-Rahman narrates from his father: A woman came to Sayyiduna Samurah bin Jundab (may Allah be pleased with him) and mentioned that her husband was unable to consummate with her. When Sayyiduna Samurah (may Allah be pleased with him) asked the man, he denied it. He wrote to Sayyiduna Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) about it, and he wrote back: "Marry him, at the expense of the treasury (bayt al-mal), to a woman who has a share of beauty and religion. If she says that he is able to consummate, keep the two of them together; and if she says that he is not able, separate them." The narrator said: They came to his house, and when people entered I also entered. The man came with traces of yellow on him. He said to him: "What have you done?" He said: "I moved it a great deal in the cloth from behind her." The narrator said: The woman stood by his feet. When he questioned her, she said: "This is nothing." Sayyiduna Samurah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Does it not become erect? Does he not come near?" The woman said: "Yes, but whenever he comes near, he brings only harm." Sayyiduna Samurah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O you who moves it about, leave her way free." This is the opinion of Sayyiduna Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him). A man may be impotent with one woman but not with another, and following the Sunnah is better. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) ruled that the oath is upon the one who denies, and the husband denies the claim of impotence. Amr bin Dinar (may Allah have mercy on him) said: Once he has had intercourse with her one time, there is no further claim or dispute in the matter.
