Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) says that al-rafath is "sexual intercourse", al-fusuq is "abuse", and al-jidal is that "you argue with your companion until you make him angry." [Surah al-Baqarah: 197]
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب الحج / 9170
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:صحيح لغيره
Hadith Takhrij«صحيح لغيره۔ ابو يعلي 2709۔ ابن ابي شيبه 13225»