Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Whoever would like his beloved to be made to wear a ring (bangle) of fire, let him make him wear a ring (bangle) of gold; whoever would like his beloved to be made to wear a necklace of fire, let him make him wear a necklace of gold; and whoever would like to make his dear one wear bracelets of fire, let him make him wear bracelets of gold. Rather, hold to silver for yourselves and take your enjoyment fully with it."
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب الزكاة / 7553