Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abi Awfa (may Allah be pleased with him) says that Sayyiduna Mu'adh bin Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him) came to Syria and saw that the people there prostrated to their priests, so he thought to himself that he would do the same for the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). When he returned, he began to prostrate to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and he (peace and blessings be upon him) disapproved of it. He said: "O Messenger of Allah! I went to Syria and the people there were prostrating to their priests, so I thought to myself that I would do the same for you." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If I were to command anyone to prostrate, I would tell the woman to prostrate to her husband. By the One in whose hand is my soul! A woman cannot fulfil the right of Allah until she fulfils the right of her husband. If he asks her for his need, even while she is on a camel saddle, she should come to him," or he said: "she should not refuse him."
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب القسم والنشوز / 14711