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Bayhaqi 14330 — Those who disliked 'azl, those from whom reports

وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ صَالِحِ بْنِ هَانِئٍ، ثنا السَّرِيُّ بْنُ ⦗٣٧٨⦘ خُزَيْمَةَ، ثنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ يَزِيدَ الْمُقْرِئُ، ثنا سَعِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي أَيُّوبَ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو الْأَسْوَدِ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا، عَنْ جُدَامَةَ بِنْتِ وَهْبٍ، أُخْتِ عُكَاشَةَ بْنِ وَهْبٍ قَالَتْ: حَضَرْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي أُنَاسٍ وَهُوَ يَقُولُ: " لَقَدْ هَمَمْتُ أَنْ أَنْهَى عَنِ الْغِيلَةِ فَنَظَرْتُ فِي الرُّومِ، وَفَارِسَ، فَإِذَا هُمْ يُغِيلُونَ أَوْلَادَهُمْ فَلَا يَضُرُّ أَوْلَادَهُمْ شَيْئًا "، وَسَأَلُوهُ عَنِ الْعَزْلِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلَّى الله عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " الْوَأْدُ الْخَفِيُّ، {وَإِذَا الْمَوْءوُدَةُ} سُئِلَتْ "، رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ فِي الصَّحِيحِ، عَنْ عُبَيْدِ اللهِ بْنِ سَعِيدٍ، وَغَيْرِهِ، عَنِ الْمُقْرِئِ، وَقَدْ رُوِّينَا عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي الْعَزْلِ خِلَافُ هَذَا وَرُوَاةُ الْإِبَاحَةِ أَكْثَرُ وَأَحْفَظُ، وَإِبَاحَةُ مَنْ سَمَّيْنَا مِنَ الصَّحَابَةِ فَهِيَ أَوْلَى وَتَحْتَمِلُ كَرَاهِيَةُ مَنْ كَرِهَهُ مِنْهُمُ التَّنْزِيهَ دُونَ التَّحْرِيمِ، وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ.
Sayyidah Judamah bint Wahb (may Allah be pleased with her), the sister of Sayyiduna Ukkashah bin Wahb (may Allah be pleased with him), said: I came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) while he (peace and blessings be upon him) was sitting among people, and he was saying: "I intended to forbid ghilah (intercourse with a nursing wife), but then I looked at Persia and Rome and saw that they practise ghilah with their children, and it does not harm their children in any way." And they asked him about 'azl, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It is al-wa'd al-khafi (a hidden form of burying alive). And when the girl buried alive is asked [Surah al-Takwir: 8]."
Note: The narrations from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) about 'azl are more numerous and are in favour of its permissibility; and whoever regarded it as disliked, that is a mild dislike (tanzihi), not that it is forbidden.
Hadith Reference السنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب النكاح / 14330
Hadith Grading محدثین: صحيح
Hadith Takhrij «صحيح۔ مسلم 1442»