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السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
باب: من تخلى لعبادة الله إذا لم تتق نفسه إلى النكاح
Chapter: One who devotes himself to the worship of Allah if he has no longing for marriage
Bayhaqi 13485 — One who devotes himself to the worship of Allah
اُردوEn
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، ثنا عَلِيُّ بْنُ حَمْشَاذٍ الْعَدْلُ، ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ ⦗١٣٥⦘ الْمُغِيرَةِ السُّكَّرِيُّ، بِهَمَذَانَ ثنا الْقَاسِمُ بْنُ الْحَكَمِ الْعُرَنِيُّ، ثنا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ دَاوُدَ الْيَمَامِيُّ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ أَبِي كَثِيرٍ، عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ: جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ أَنَا فُلَانَةُ بِنْتُ فُلَانٍ قَالَ: " قَدْ عَرَفْتُكِ فَمَا حَاجَتُكِ؟ " قَالَتْ: حَاجَتِي إِلَى ابْنِ عَمِّي فُلَانٍ الْعَابِدِ قَالَ: " قَدْ عَرَفْتُهُ " قَالَتْ: يَخْطُبُنِي فَأَخْبِرْنِي مَا حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى الزَّوْجَةِ، فَإِنْ كَانَ شَيْئًا أُطِيقُهُ تَزَوَّجْتُهُ، وَإِنْ لَمْ أُطِقْ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ قَالَ: " مِنْ حَقِّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى الزَّوْجَةِ أَنْ لَوْ سَالَ مَنْخِرَاهُ دَمًا وَقَيْحًا وَصَدِيدًا، فَلَحَسَتْهُ بِلِسَانِهَا مَا أَدَّتْ حَقَّهُ لَوْ كَانَ يَنْبَغِي لِبَشَرٍ أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِبَشَرٍ لَأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا إِذَا دَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا؛ لِمَا فَضَّلَهُ اللهُ عَلَيْهَا " قَالَتْ: وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ مَا بَقِيتُ فِي الدُّنْيَا.
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) says that a woman came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! I am so-and-so, the daughter of so-and-so." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I have recognised you; what do you need?" She said: "My paternal cousin has proposed to me. Tell me what right a husband has over his wife. If I am able to bear it, I will marry; otherwise I will not." He said: "The husband's right over the wife is such that if blood, vomit or pus were flowing from him and the woman licked it with her tongue, she would still not have fulfilled her husband's right. If prostration to any human being were fitting, I would have commanded the wife to prostrate to her husband when he comes in to her, because of the excellence Allah has given him over the woman." The woman said: "By the One who sent you with the truth, I will never marry." [Sahih li-ghayrihi]
