It is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) that when the time of death of Sayyiduna Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) drew near, Sayyidah Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) asked (in distress): To whom are you leaving me in charge? So he made this supplication: 'Allahumma innaka li-Umm Salamah khayrun min Abi Salamah' (O Allah, be better for Umm Salamah (as a guardian and caretaker) than Abu Salamah). Then, when he passed away, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) sent her a proposal of marriage, upon which she said (as an excuse) that she was a woman of advanced age. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I am older than you in age, and the (care of the) family is upon Allah and His Messenger; as for your jealousy, I hope that Allah Almighty will remove it from your heart." Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) married her and sent her (at the time of her coming to him) two hand-mills and a vessel (water-skin) for water.
Hadith Referenceمسند أبي يعلى الموصلي / مسند أنس بن مالك / 4161
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:إسناده حسن
Hadith Takhrij«حکم الحدیث مسند ابی یعلی محققاً تنسیق حسين سليم أسد - مکتبہ شاملہ :قال حسين سليم أسد: إسناده حسن . » «قال سعيد بن محمد السناري: حسن» «أخرجه الضياء في "المختارة" [رقم 2648، مسند ابویعلیٰ ترقیم الاثری: 4146»