Musnad Abi Ya'la 3707 — The Messenger of Allah ﷺ forbade visiting

It is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him): "The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade visiting graves, keeping the meat of sacrificial animals for more than three days, and preparing nabidh in gourd vessels, green glazed jars and pitch-coated vessels. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said (later): 'I had forbidden you three things, then (the divine wisdom) concerning them became clear to me. I had forbidden you to visit graves; then it became clear to me that this visiting softens the heart, brings tears to the eye and reminds one of the Hereafter, so now visit them, but do not say anything vain or indecent there. And I had forbidden you to eat the meat of sacrificial animals beyond three nights; then it became clear to me that people save this meat as their food, give gifts to their guests and also store it for their travellers, so now keep with you as much of it as you wish. And I had forbidden you to prepare nabidh in these particular vessels, so now drink from whatever vessel you wish, but beware, do not drink anything intoxicating; and whoever wishes may tie up the mouth of his waterskin over sin (that is, whoever drinks something intoxicating will himself be answerable for his sin).'"