مصنف ابن ابي شيبه
Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah
كتاب الأدب
Book of Manners
ما يؤمر به الرجل في مجلسه؟
What a man is commanded in his gathering
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٢٧١٧٩ - حدثنا أبو أسامة عن المجالد قال: أخبرني عامر عن ابن عباس قال: قال العباس لابنه عبد اللَّه (١): يا بني! إني أرى أمير المؤمنين يقربك (ويستشيرك) (٢) مِع أناس من أصحاب رسول اللَّه ﷺ ويخلو بك، (فاحفظ) (٣) عني ثلاثًا: ⦗١٩٠⦘ اتق (٤) (لا يجربنّ) (٥) عليك كذبة، ولا تفشين له سرًا، ولا (تغتابنّ) (٦) عنده أحدًا، قال: فقلت لابن عباس: يا أبا عباس! كل واحدة منهن خير من (ألف) (٧) قال: ومن عشرة آلاف (٨).
Amir said that Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) said: Sayyiduna Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) said to me: O my son! I see that the Commander of the Believers brings you close to him, seeks your counsel along with the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and sits with you in private. So take three things from me and keep them safe. Beware lest he ever find a lie from you; never disclose his secret; and never backbite anyone in his presence. The narrator said: I said to Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both): Each one of these is better than a thousand. He said: Rather, better than ten thousand.
٢٧١٨٠ - حدثنا عبد اللَّه بن إدريس عن ابن عجلان عن إبراهيم بن مرة عن محمد بن شهاب قال: قال عمر: لا تعترض فيما لا يعنيك، واعتزل عسدوك، واحتفظ من (خليلك) (١) إلا (الأمين) (٢)، فإن (الأمين) (٣) (٤) يعادله شيء، ولا (تصحب) (٥) الفاجر فيعلمك من فجوره، ولا تفش إليه (بسرك) (٦)، واستشر في أمرك الذين يخشون اللَّه (٧).
Muhammad bin Shihab said that Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Do not pursue what brings you no benefit. Beware of your enemy, and beware of your friend, except for the trustworthy one, for nothing can equal a trustworthy person among the people. Do not keep the company of the wicked person, for he will teach you some of his wickedness, and do not disclose any secret of yours to him. In your affairs, seek counsel from those who fear Allah Almighty.
٢٧١٨١ - حدثنا الثقفي عن أيوب عن أبي قلابة قال: (لا) (١) تحدث بالحديث من لا يعرفه، (فإن من لا يعرفه يضره) (٢) ولا ينفعه.
Ayyub said that Abu Qilabah said: Do not tell your words to a person who knows nothing about them, for the one who knows nothing about the matter will cause harm and, at the very least, will bring no benefit.
٢٧١٨٢ - حدثنا يزيد بن هارون قال: حدثنا حميد الطويل عن أنس قال: كنت مع الغلمان فمر علينا النبي ﷺ (١) فسلم (علينا) (٢)، ثم بعثني في حاجة وجلس في جدار أو في ظل حتى أتيته فأبلغته حاجته، فلما أتيت أم سليم قالت: ما حبسك اليوم؟ قلت: (بعثني) (٣) النبي ﷺ (في حاجة) (٤)، قالت: ما هي؟ قلت: إنها سر قالت: فاحفظ سر رسول اللَّه ﷺ (قال) (٥): فما حدثت بها أحدا (قط) (٦) (٧).
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I was with the children when the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) passed by us, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) greeted us with salam. Then he (peace and blessings be upon him) sent me on an errand and sat down in the shade of a wall until I came back to him (peace and blessings be upon him). I informed him (peace and blessings be upon him) about that errand. Then when I came to Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her), she said: What kept you back today? I said: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sent me on an errand. She said: What was the errand? I said: It is a secret of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). She said: Guard the secret of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I did not tell anyone about it.
