Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 40109 — Those who disliked going out during

Hisham bin Urwah reports from Urwah that he said: Sayyiduna Abdullah bin al-Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him) and I came to Sayyidah Asma (may Allah be pleased with her) ten nights before his martyrdom, and Sayyidah Asma was ill. Sayyiduna Abdullah said to her: "How do you find yourself?" She said: "I am ill." Sayyiduna Abdullah said: "In death there is relief." Sayyidah Asma said: "Perhaps you desire my death, and that is why you wish for it. By Allah, I do not wish that death should come to you until you arrive at one of two outcomes: either you are killed and I seek reward through you, or you prevail and my eye is cooled. Beware lest terms that do not suit you be offered to you and you accept them out of dislike and aversion for death." What Sayyiduna Abdullah meant was that he would be killed and that this would grieve Sayyidah Asma.