Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 20430 — A woman's mourning for her husband

Sayyidah Umm Salamah and Sayyidah Umm Habibah (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrate that a woman once came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said that the husband of a daughter of hers had died. Her eye was afflicted, and she wished to apply kohl. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "One of you used to throw a piece of camel dung at the completion of a year; now the waiting period is only four months and ten days."