Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 18009 — The right of a husband over his wife

Husayn bin Mihsan (may Allah have mercy on him) said: My paternal aunt came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) for some need. When her need had been met, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Do you have a husband?" She said: "Yes." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "How do you treat him?" She said: "I always seek his good, except in what I am unable to do." the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Be mindful, for he is your Paradise and he is your Hell."