Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 18008 — The right of a husband over his wife

It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) that a woman came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah! What is the husband's right over his wife?" the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The husband's right is that the wife should not refuse herself to him, even if she is on the saddle of a camel." The woman asked again: "O Messenger of Allah! What is the husband's right over his wife?" the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That she should not give anything from her husband's house in charity without his permission. If she does so, the husband gets the reward and the wife gets the sin." The woman said again: "O Messenger of Allah! What is the husband's right over his wife?" He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "That the woman should not go out of the house without her husband's permission. If she does so, the angels of Allah, the angels of mercy and the angels of wrath curse her until she repents or returns." The woman asked: "Even if her husband is unjust to her?" He said: "Yes, even if he is unjust." Then the woman said: "By the One who sent you with the truth, after today I will never make anyone the master of my affair," meaning that she would not marry.