Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 12498 — Severity regarding weeping over

Jabr bin Atik narrates from his paternal uncle: I went with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) to visit a man of the Ansar, and his family were weeping over him. I said: "Do you weep while this is the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) (present among you)?" He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Leave them; let them weep as long as he is with them. When it becomes due (when he dies), then let them not weep."