Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 12006 — A woman: who places her in her grave

Sayyiduna Abd al-Rahman bin Abza (may Allah be pleased with him) said: When Sayyidah Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) passed away, Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said four takbirs in her funeral prayer, and then he asked the pure wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): "Who should place her in her grave?" They said: "Whoever used to come in to see her during her lifetime should place her in it." (That is, a relative from whom she did not observe hijab.)