Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 11002 — On refraining from begging, and those

It is narrated from Sayyiduna Tha'labah bin Zahdam (may Allah be pleased with him) that some people of (the tribe of) Tha'labah came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) while he was delivering a sermon, and he was saying: "The hand of the giver is the upper one and the hand of the one who asks is the lower one. And begin (in giving) with those whom you support: your mother, your father, your sister, your brother, then the one nearest to you, then the next nearest."