Sayyiduna Dirham (may Allah be pleased with him) came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I have come to you to ask for a ruling about going out on jihad." He (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "Do you have a mother (living)?" He said: "Yes." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Then stay with her."
Hadith Referenceالمعجم الكبير للطبراني / باب الدال / 4196