It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Ayyub (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "When the soul of a believer dies, the people of mercy among the servants of Allah receive it just as a bearer of good news is received in this world. They say: Look at your companion, he is finding rest, for he was in severe distress. Then they ask him: What did so-and-so do? What did so-and-so (a woman) do? Did she marry? If they ask him about someone who died before him, he says: Alas! He died before me. Then they say: Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un (We belong to Allah and to Him we return); he has been taken to his mother, Hawiyah; what an evil mother and what an evil nurse!"
Hadith Referenceالمعجم الكبير للطبراني / باب الخاء / 3874