Qays bin Abi Hazim said: Sayyiduna Jarir bin Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Do people, after the burial, lament the deceased by recounting his virtues, or he said: at the house of the deceased's family?" - Isma'il was in doubt - I said: Yes. He said: "We used to regard that as wailing (niyahah)."
Hadith Referenceالمعجم الكبير للطبراني / باب الجيم / 2265