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Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 21318 — I asked Fatimah bint Qays how her affair

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ اللَّيْثِ الْجَوْهَرِيُّ، وَالْقَاسِمُ بْنُ عَبَّادٍ الْخَطَّابِيُّ، قَالَا: ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ لُوَيْنَ، ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جَابِرٍ، عَنْ حَبِيبِ بْنِ أَبِي ثَابِتٍ، عَنْ عَامِرٍ الشَّعْبِيِّ، قَالَ: سَأَلْتُ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتَ قَيْسٍ كَيْفَ كَانَ أَمْرُهَا؟ قَالَتْ: طَلَّقَنِي زَوْجِي ثَلَاثًا جَمِيعًا، فَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقُلْتُ: زَعَمَ أَحْمَائِي أَنَّهُ لَيْسَ لِي سُكْنَى وَلَا نَفَقَةً، قَالَ: «صَدَقُوا، اذْهَبِي فَاعْتَدِّي فِي بَيْتِ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ» وَكَانَ أَعْمَى قَالَتْ: فَخَطَبَهَا أَبُو الْجَهْمِ بْنُ حُذَيْفَةَ، وَمِنْ بَعْدِهِ مُعَاوِيَةُ بَعْدَ انْقِضَاءِ الْعِدَّةِ، فَاسْتَشَارَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ: «أَمَا أَبُو جَهْمٍ فَضَرُوبٌ لِلنِّسَاءِ، وَأَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فَمُمَلَّقٌ - يَعْنِي مُفْلِسَ - لَا يَمْلِكُ شَيْئًا، وَلَكِنْ أَيْنَ أَنْتِ عَنْ أُسَامَةَ؟» قُلْتُ: أَنْكِحُ أُسَامَةَ؟ قَالَ: «نَعَمِ انْكِحِي أُسَامَةَ»
Al-Sha'bi (may Allah have mercy on him) said: I asked Fatimah bint Qays (may Allah be pleased with her) how her affair had gone. She said: My husband gave me three divorces all at once, so I came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "My in-laws claim that I am entitled to neither housing nor maintenance." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "They have spoken the truth. Go and spend your waiting period in the house of Ibn Umm Maktum." He was blind. Fatimah said: Then Abu al-Jahm bin Hudhayfah, and after him Mu'awiyah, proposed to her after her waiting period was over, and she consulted the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "As for Abu Jahm, he beats women a great deal; and as for Mu'awiyah, he is destitute (that is, penniless) and owns nothing. But why do you not consider Usamah?" I said: "Shall I marry Usamah?" He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Yes, marry Usamah."
Hadith Reference المعجم الكبير للطبراني / مسند النساء / 21318
Hadith Takhrij المعجم الكبير للطبراني (مطبوعہ): جلد 24، صفحہ 383، حدیث 950