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المعجم الكبير للطبراني
Al-Mu'jam al-Kabir (Tabarani)
مسند النساء
The Female Companions (may Allah be pleased with them)
خولة بنت مالك بن ثعلبة " امرأة أوس بن الصلت وهي المظاهر منها "
Khawlah bint Malik bin Tha'labah (may Allah be pleased with her), wife of Aws bin al-Samit, from whom zihar was declared
Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 21003 — Sayyidah Khawlah bint Tha'labah, who was
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حَدَّثَنَا عُبَيْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحِيمِ الْبَرْقِيُّ، ثنا عَمْرُو بْنُ خَالِدٍ الْحَرَّانِيُّ، ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقَ، عَنْ مَعْمَرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ حَنْظَلَةَ عَنْ يُوسُفَ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ سَلَّامٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَتْنِي خَوْلَةُ بِنْتُ ثَعْلَبَةَ، وَكَانَتْ، عِنْدَ أَوْسِ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ أَخِي عُبَادَةَ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ، قَالَتْ: دَخَلَ عَلِيَّ ذَاتَ يَوْمٍ فَكَلِّمْنِي بِشَيْءٍ وَهُوَ فِيهِ كالضَّجِرِ فَرَادَدْتُهُ فَقَالَ: أَنْتِ عَلِيَّ كَظَهْرِ أُمِّي، ثُمَّ خَرَجَ فَجَلَسَ، ثُمَّ نَادَى قَوْمَهُ، ثُمَّ رَجَعَ إِلَيَّ فَأَرَادَنِي عَلَى نَفْسِي فَامْتَنَعْتُ مِنْهُ فَشَادَدَنِي فَشَادَدْتُهُ فَغَلَبَتُهُ بِمَا تَغْلِبُ بِهِ الْمَرْأَةُ الرَّجُلَ الضَّعِيفَ، فَقُلْتُ: كَلَّا وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ خُوَيْلَةَ بِيَدِهِ لَا تَصِلُ إِلَيْهَا حَتَّى يَحْكُمَ اللهُ فِيَّ وفيكَ فَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَشْكُو إِلَيْهِ مَا لَقِيتُ مِنْهُ فَقَالَ: " زَوْجُكِ وَابْنُ عَمِّكِ فَاتَّقِي اللهَ، فَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ: {قَدْ سَمِعَ اللهُ قَوْلَ الَّتِي تُجَادِلُكَ فِي زَوْجِهَا وَتَشْتَكِي إِلَى اللهِ} [المجادلة: ١] حَتَّى بَلَغَ الْكَفَّارَةَ، ثُمَّ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «مُرِيهِ فَلْيُعْتِقْ رَقَبَةً» ، فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَاللهِ مَا عِنْدَهُ رَقَبَةً يَعْتِقُهَا، قَالَ: «فَلْيَصُمْ شَهْرَيْنِ مُتَتَابِعَيْنِ» ، قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ شَيْخٌ كَبِيرٌ، وَاللهِ مَا بِهِ صِيَامٌ، قَالَ: «فَلْيُطْعِمْ سِتِّينَ مِسْكِينًا» قُلْتُ: وَاللهِ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ مَا عِنْدَهُ مَا يُطْعِمُ قَالَ: " بَلْ سَنُعِينُهُ بِعَرَقٍ مِنْ تَمْرٍ، وَالْعَرَقُ مِكْتَلٌ يَتَّسِعُ ثَلَاثِينَ صَاعًا، قُلْتُ: وَأَنَا أُعِينُهُ بِعَرَقٍ آخَرَ قَالَ: «قَدْ أَحْسَنْتِ فَمُرِيهِ فَلْيَتَصَدَّقْ بِهِ»
Sayyidah Khawlah bint Tha'labah (may Allah be pleased with her), who was married to Sayyiduna Aws bin al-Samit (may Allah be pleased with him), the brother of Sayyiduna Ubadah bin al-Samit (may Allah be pleased with him), related: One day he came in to me and spoke to me about something while he was in a somewhat irritable state. I answered him back, so he said: You are to me like the back of my mother. Then he went out and sat down, then called out to his people, then came back to me and wanted to satisfy his desire with me. I refused him; he struggled with me and I struggled with him, and I overpowered him the way a woman overpowers a weak man. I said: No, by the One in whose hand is the soul of Khuwaylah! You will not reach her until Allah judges concerning me and you. Then I came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) to complain to him of what I had suffered from him. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "He is your husband and your cousin, so fear Allah." Then Allah Almighty revealed this verse: "Allah has indeed heard the statement of the woman who disputes with you concerning her husband and complains to Allah" [Surah al-Mujadalah: 1], until the expiation was mentioned. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Tell him to free a slave." I said: O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, he has no slave to free. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Then let him fast two consecutive months." I said: O Messenger of Allah, he is a very old man; by Allah, he has no strength to fast. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Then let him feed sixty poor people." I said: By Allah, O Messenger of Allah, he has nothing with which to feed them. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Rather, we will help him with a basket ('araq) of dates." And the 'araq is a large basket that holds thirty sa'. I said: And I will help him with another basket. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "You have done well; tell him to give it in charity."
