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Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 20797 — the Messenger of Allah ﷺ went out

حَدَّثَنَا خَلْفُ بْنُ دَاوُدَ الْعُكْبَرِيُّ، ثنا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ الرَّبِيعِ، ثنا دَاوُدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ بْنِ خُثَيْمٍ، عَنْ شَهْرِ بْنِ حَوْشَبٍ، عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ يَزِيدَ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ خَرَجَ إِلَى النِّسَاءِ فِي جَانِبِ الْمَسْجِدِ، فَإِذَا أَنَا مَعَهُنَّ فَسَمِعَ أَصْوَاتَهُنَّ، فَقَالَ: «يَا مَعْشَرَ النِّسَاءِ، إِنَّكُنَّ أَكْثَرُ حَطَبِ جَهَنَّمَ» فَنَادَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَكُنْتُ جَرِيئَةً عَلَى كَلَامِهِ، فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ لَمَ؟ قَالَ: «لِأَنَّكُنَّ إِذَا أُعْطِيتُنَّ لَمْ تَشْكُرْنَ، وَإِذَا ابْتُلِيتُنَّ لَمْ تَصْبِرْنَ، فَإِذَا أُمْسِكَ عَنْكُنَّ شَكَوْتُنَّ، وَإِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَانَ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ» فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَمَا كُفْرَانُ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ؟ قَالَ: " الْمَرْأَةُ تَكُونُ عِنْدَ الرَّجُلِ وَقَدْ وَلَدَتْ لَهُ الْوَلَدَيْنِ وَالثَّلَاثَةِ فَتَقُولُ: مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْرًا قَطُّ "
It is narrated from Sayyidah Asma' bint Yazid (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) went out to the women at one side of the mosque, and I was with them. He (peace and blessings be upon him) heard their voices and said: "O assembly of women! You are most of the fuel of Hell." So I called out to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and I was bold in speaking to him (peace and blessings be upon him), and I said: "O Messenger of Allah! Why?" He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Because when you are given, you do not give thanks; and when you are tested, you are not patient; and when something is withheld from you, you complain. And beware of ingratitude for blessings." I said: "O Messenger of Allah! What is ingratitude for blessings?" He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A woman is with her husband and has borne him two or three children, yet she says: 'I have never seen any good from you.'"
Hadith Reference المعجم الكبير للطبراني / مسند النساء / 20797
Hadith Takhrij المعجم الكبير للطبراني (مطبوعہ): جلد 24، صفحہ 168، حدیث 426