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Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 18176 — Sayyiduna Mughirah bin Shu'bah said: I

حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الدَّبَرِيُّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّزَّاقِ، عَنِ الثَّوْرِيِّ، عَنْ عَاصِمٍ الْأَحْوَلِ، عَنْ بَكْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ الْمُزَنِيِّ، ح قَالَ عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ , وَأَنَا مَعْمَرٌ , عَنْ ثَابِتٍ الْبُنَانِيِّ , عَنْ بَكْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ الْمُزَنِيِّ أَنَّ الْمُغِيرَةَ بْنَ شُعْبَةَ قَالَ: أَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَذَكَرْتُ لَهُ امْرَأَةً أَخْطُبُهَا فَقَالَ: «اذْهَبْ فَانْظُرْ إِلَيْهَا , فَإِنَّهُ أَحْرَى أَنْ يُؤْدَمَ بَيْنَكُمَا» فَأَتَيْتُ امْرَأَةً مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ فَخَطَبْتُهَا إِلَى أَبَوَيْهَا وَأَخْبَرْتُهُمَا بِقَوْلِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , فَكَأَنَّهُمَا كَرِهَِا ذَلِكَ , فَسَمِعَتْ ذَلِكَ الْمَرْأَةُ وَهِي فِيَ خِدْرِهَا فَقَالَتْ: إِنْ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَمَرَكَ أَنْ تَنْظُرَ فَانْظُرْ , وَإِلَّا فَإِنِّي أَنْشُدُكَ , كَأَنَّهَا أَعْظَمَتْ ذَلِكَ , قَالَ: فَنَظَرْتُ إِلَيْهَا فَتَزَوَّجْتُهَا "
وَذَكَرَ مِنْ مُوَافَقَتِهَا
Bakr bin Abdullah al-Muzani (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates that Sayyiduna Mughirah bin Shu'bah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and mentioned to him (peace and blessings be upon him) a woman to whom I wanted to propose marriage. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Go and look at her, for that is more likely to keep love between the two of you." So I went to a woman of the Ansar and proposed to her through her parents, and I told them what the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) had said, and it was as if they disliked it. The woman heard this from behind her curtain and said: "If the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) has ordered you to look, then look; otherwise, I adjure you (not to)" - as if she regarded it as a very serious matter. He said: So I looked at her and married her. And the narrator also mentioned her harmony (and compatibility with her husband).
Hadith Reference المعجم الكبير للطبراني / باب الميم / 18176
Hadith Takhrij المعجم الكبير للطبراني (مطبوعہ): جلد 20، صفحہ 433، حدیث 1052