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Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 18034 — Mu'awiyah bin Abi Sufyan wrote

حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الدَّبَرِيُّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّزَّاقِ، عَنْ مَعْمَرٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ بْنِ عُمَيْرٍ، عَنْ وَرَّادٍ، كَاتَبِ الْمُغِيرَةِ بْنِ شُعْبَةَ، قَالَ: كَتَبَ مُعَاوِيَةُ بْنُ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ إِلَى الْمُغِيرَةِ: أَنِ اكْتُبْ إِلَيَّ بِشَيْءٍ مِنْ حَدِيثِ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَكَتَبَ إِلَيْهِ: إِنِّي سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ " يَتَعَوَّذُ مِنْ ثَلَاثٍ: مِنْ عُقُوقِ الْأُمَّهَاتِ، وَمِنْ وَأْدِ الْبَنَاتِ، وَمِنْ مَنَعَ وَهَاتِ «، وَسَمِعْتُهُ» نَهَى عَنْ ثَلَاثٍ: عَنْ قِيلَ وَقَالَ، وَإِضَاعَةِ الْمَالِ، وَكَثْرَةِ السُّؤَالِ "، وَسَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ: «اللهُمَّ لَا مَانِعَ لِمَا أَعْطَيْتَ، وَلَا مُعْطِيَ لِمَا مَنَعْتَ، وَلَا يَنْفَعُ ذَا الْجَدِّ مِنْكَ الْجَدُّ»
Warrad, the scribe of Sayyiduna al-Mughirah bin Shu'bah (may Allah be pleased with him), said: Mu'awiyah bin Abi Sufyan (may Allah be pleased with him) wrote to al-Mughirah (may Allah be pleased with him): Write to me something from the hadith of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). So al-Mughirah (may Allah be pleased with him) wrote to him: I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) seek refuge from three things: from disobedience to mothers, from burying daughters alive, and from withholding (what one should give) and constantly demanding; and I heard him (peace and blessings be upon him) forbid three things: idle talk, wasting wealth, and asking excessive questions; and I also heard him (peace and blessings be upon him) say: "O Allah, none can withhold what You give, and none can give what You withhold, and the greatness of one who has greatness avails him nothing against You."
Hadith Reference المعجم الكبير للطبراني / باب الميم / 18034
Hadith Takhrij المعجم الكبير للطبراني (مطبوعہ): جلد 20، صفحہ 386، حدیث 909