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Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 16528 — My companion and I reached the Messenger

حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الدَّبَرِيُّ، أنا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ، أنا ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ، أَخْبَرَنِي إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ كَثِيرٍ، عَنْ عَاصِمِ بْنِ لَقِيطِ بْنِ صَبِرَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، قَالَ: انْطَلَقْتُ أَنَا وَصَاحِبٌ لِي حَتَّى انْتَهَيْنَا إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَلَمْ نَجِدْهُ فَأَطْعَمَتْنَا عَائِشَةُ تَمْرًا، وَعَصَدَتْ لَنَا عَصِيدَةً، إِذْ جَاءَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَنْقَلِعُ، فَقَالَ: «هَلْ أَطْعَمْتِهِمْ مِنْ شَيْءٍ؟» ، قُلْنَا: نَعَمْ، فَبَيْنَا نَحْنُ عَلَى ذَلِكَ دَفَعَ الرَّاعِي الْغَنَمَ إِلَى الْمُرَاحِ، عَلَى يَدِهِ سَخْلَةٌ، فَقَالَ: «هَلْ وَلَدَتْ؟» ، قَالَ: نَعَمْ، قَالَ: «فَاذْبَحْ شَاةً» ، ثُمَّ أَقْبَلَ عَلَيْنَا بِوَجْهِهِ فَقَالَ: " لَا تَحْسَبَنَّ - وَلَمْ يَقُلْ: لَا تَحْسَبُنَّ - أَنَّا ذَبَحْنَا الشَّاةَ مِنْ أَجْلِكُمَا، لَنَا غَنْمٌ مِائَةٌ لَا نُرِيدُ أَنْ تَزِيدَ عَلَيْهَا، إِذَا وُلِدَ لِلرَّاعِي بَهْمَةٌ أَمَرْنَاهُ فَذَبَحَ شَاةً "
قَالَ: قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ أَخْبِرْنِي عَنِ الْوُضُوءِ، قَالَ: «إِذَا تَوَضَّأْتَ فَأَسْبِغِ الْوُضُوءَ وَخَلِّلِ الْأَصَابِعَ، وَإِذَا اسْتَنْثَرْتَ فَأَبْلِغْ إِلَّا أَنْ تَكُونَ صَائِمًا»
قَالَ: قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ لِي امْرَأَةً، فَذَكَرَ مِنْ طُولِ لِسَانِهَا وَبَذَائِهَا، قَالَ: «طَلِّقْهَا» ، قَالَ: قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّهَا ذَاتُ صُحْبَةٍ وَوَلَدٍ، قَالَ: «أَمْسِكْهَا وَأَئْمِرْهَا فَإِنْ يَكُنْ فِيهَا خَيْرٌ فَسَتَفْعَلُ، وَلَا تَضْرِبْ ظَعِينَتَكَ ضَرْبَكَ أَمَتَكَ» .
Sayyiduna Laqit bin Sabirah al-Uqayli (may Allah be pleased with him) said: My companion and I reached the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) but did not find him (peace and blessings be upon him), so Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) fed us dates and made a porridge ('asidah) for us. Meanwhile the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) arrived and said: "Did you feed them anything?" We said: Yes. In the meantime the shepherd brought the goats into the fold, with a newborn kid in his hand, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "Has she given birth?" He said: Yes. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Then slaughter a goat." Then he turned his face towards us and said: "Do not by any means think" — and he did not say: you should not think — "that we slaughtered this goat because of you two. We have a hundred goats and we do not want the number to grow beyond that; whenever a young one is born to the shepherd, we order him to slaughter a goat."
I said: O Messenger of Allah! Tell me about ablution (wudu). He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "When you perform ablution, perform it thoroughly and pass (water) between the fingers, and when you put water into your nose, do it thoroughly, unless you are fasting."
I said: O Messenger of Allah! I have a wife — and he mentioned her long tongue and foul language. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Divorce her." I said: O Messenger of Allah! She has been a long companion and has children. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Then keep her and advise her; if there is any good in her, she will accept it. And never beat your wife the way you beat your slave-girl."
Hadith Reference المعجم الكبير للطبراني / باب اللام / 16528
Hadith Takhrij المعجم الكبير للطبراني (مطبوعہ): جلد 19، صفحہ 215، حدیث 479