Sayyiduna al-'Urs bin Umayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Seek the consent of women, so that a previously married woman may express her own wishes; and the consent of a virgin is her silence."
Hadith Referenceالمعجم الكبير للطبراني / باب العين / 14414