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Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 12783 — , as Abu Salamah thought

حَدَّثَنَا يُوسُفُ الْقَاضِي، ثنا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ، ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ عَمَّارِ بْنِ أَبِي عَمَّارٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، فِيمَا يَحْسَبُ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ - أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " ذَكَرَ خَدِيجَةَ بِنْتَ خُوَيْلِدٍ وَكَانَ أَبُوهَا يَرْغَبُ أَنْ يُزَوِّجَهُ، فَصَنَعَتْ طَعَامًا وَشَرَابًا وَدَعَتْ أَبَاهَا وَأُنَاسًا مِنْ قُرَيْشٍ، فَطَعِمُوا وَشَرِبُوا، فَقَالَتْ خَدِيجَةُ لِأَبِيهَا: إِنَّ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللهِ يَخْطُبُنِي قُمْ فَزَوِّجْهُ فَزَوَّجَهَا إِيَّاهُ، فَخَلَفَتْهُ، وَأَلْبَسَتْهُ حُلَّةً، وَكَذَلِكَ كَانُوا يَفْعَلُونَ بِالْآبَاءِ إِذَا زَوَّجُوا بَنَاتِهِمْ، فَلَمَّا سُرِّيَ عَنْهُ السُّكْرُ نَظَرَ فَإِذَا هُوَ مُخَلَّقٌ وَعَلَيْهِ حُلَّةٌ، فَقَالَ مَا شَأْنِي؟ فَقَالَتْ: زَوَّجْتَنِي مِنْ مُحَمَّدٍ، فَقَالَ: أَنَا زَوَّجْتُكِ يَتِيمَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ لَا لَعَمْرِي، فَقَالَتْ خَدِيجَةُ: أَمَا تَسْتَحِي أَتُرِيدُ أَنْ تُسَفِّهَ نَفْسَكَ، تُخْبِرُ قُرَيْشًا وَالنَّاسَ أَنَّكَ كُنْتَ سَكْرَانًا فَلَمْ تَزَلْ بِهِ حَتَّى رَضِيَ "
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrated, as Abu Salamah thought, that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) mentioned Sayyidah Khadijah bint Khuwaylid (may Allah be pleased with her), and that her father was reluctant to marry her to him (peace and blessings be upon him). So Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) prepared food and drink and invited her father and some people of Quraysh, and they ate and drank. Then Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to her father: "Muhammad bin Abdullah is proposing marriage to me; get up and marry me to him." So he married her to him (peace and blessings be upon him). Then Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) applied perfume to him and dressed him in a robe, for this is what people used to do with fathers when they married off their daughters. When his intoxication wore off, he saw that he was perfumed and wearing a robe, and said: "What is the matter with me?" Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "You have married me to Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him)." He said: "I married you to the orphan of Abu Talib? Never, by my life!" At this Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "Are you not ashamed? Do you want to make yourself look foolish, telling Quraysh and the people that you were drunk?" She kept persuading him until he was satisfied.
Hadith Reference المعجم الكبير للطبراني / باب العين / 12783
Hadith Takhrij المعجم الكبير للطبراني (مطبوعہ): جلد 12، صفحہ 186، حدیث 12838