It is narrated from Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) that there was a dispute between a woman and her husband, so they both came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). The woman said: "By the One who sent you (peace and blessings be upon him) with the truth! This is my husband, and there is no one on the face of the earth more hateful to me than him." The husband said: "By the One who sent you (peace and blessings be upon him) with the truth! This is my wife, and there is nothing on earth more hateful to me than her." The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) ordered them to come close to him (peace and blessings be upon him), then he (peace and blessings be upon him) supplicated for them both. They had not yet parted from him (peace and blessings be upon him) when the woman said: "By the One who sent you (peace and blessings be upon him) with the truth! Allah has not created anything dearer to me than him (my husband)." And the husband said: "By the One who sent you (peace and blessings be upon him) with the truth! Allah has not created anything dearer to me than her (my wife)."
Imam al-Tabarani (may Allah have mercy on him) said: "No one narrated this hadith from Ibn al-Munkadir except Ibn Lahi'ah."
Hadith Referenceالمعجم الأوسط / باب الميم / 9051
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:إسناده ضعيف لضعف المقدام بن داود، وبقية رجاله رجال الصحيح
Hadith Takhrij«قال الهيثمي: فيه مقدام بن داود شيخ الطبراني وهو ضعيف وبقية رجاله رجال الصحيح «مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد، ج 4، ص 291»» «أخرجه أبو يعلى فى «مسنده» برقم: 1868، وابن حجر فى «المطالب العالية» برقم: 3811»