It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Layla (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No servant truly believes until I become more beloved to him than his own self, my family more beloved to him than his family, my offspring and kin more beloved to him than his kin, and my person more beloved to him than his own person."
Imam al-Tabarani (may Allah have mercy on him) said: "This hadith was narrated from al-Hakam only by Ibn Abi Layla, and from Ibn Abi Layla only by Sa'id bin Amr al-Sakuni."
Hadith Referenceالمعجم الأوسط / باب الميم / 5790
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:إسناده ضعيف لسوء حفظ محمد بن عبد الرحمن بن أبي ليلى
Hadith Takhrij«قال الهيثمي: فيه محمد بن عبد الرحمن بن أبي ليلى وهو سيئ الحفظ لا يحتج به «مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد، ج 1، ص 88»» «أخرجه الطبراني فى «الكبير» برقم: 6416»