It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Bakrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said: We were with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) when he (peace and blessings be upon him) sent out a military detachment in some direction. Then a bearer of good news came to him (peace and blessings be upon him) with the news that the leadership of the enemy's affairs had been entrusted to a woman. So he (peace and blessings be upon him) fell down in prostration, then raised his blessed head, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) was saying: "Men were ruined when they obeyed women."
Hadith Referenceالمعجم الأوسط / باب الألف / 425
Hadith Takhrij«أخرجه الحاكم فى «المستدرك» برقم: 7884، وأحمد فى «مسنده» برقم: 20785، والبزار فى «مسنده» برقم: 3692»