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المطالب العالية بزوائد المسانيد الثمانية
Al-Matalib al-'Aliyah
كتاب الوليمة
Book of the Wedding Feast
بَابُ الوصية بالنساء
Chapter: Enjoining good treatment of women
Al-Matalib al-'Aliyah 1675 — Enjoining good treatment of women
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وَقَالَ الْحَارِثُ : حَدَّثَنَا دَاوُدُ بْنُ رُشَيْدٍ ، ثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ ، عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ جَابِرٍ ، عَنِ الْمِقْدَامِ بْنِ مَعْدِي كَرِبَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ : إِنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَامَ فِي النَّاسِ ، فَحَمِدَ اللهَ تَعَالَى ، وَأَثْنَى عَلَيْهِ ، ثُمَّ قَالَ : " إِنَّ اللهَ تَعَالَى يُوصِيكُمْ بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا ! إِنَّ اللهَ يُوصِيكُمْ بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا ! إِنَّ اللهَ يُوصِيكُمْ بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا ! إِنَّ اللهَ يُوصِيكُمْ بِأُمَّهَاتِكُمْ ، وَبِآبَائِكُمْ ، وَإِخْوَانِكُمْ ، وَعَمَّاتِكُمْ ، وَخَالَاتِكُمْ .
إِنَّ الرَّجُلَ مِنْ أَهْلِ الْكِتَابَيْنِ يَتَزَوَّجُ الْمَرْأَةَ وَمَا يَعْلَمُ مَا لَهُ بِهَا مِنَ الْخَيْرِ ، فَمَا يَرْغَبُ وَاحِدٌ مِنْهُمَا عَنْ صَاحِبِهِ حَتَّى يَمُوتَا هَرَمًا " .
قَالَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ : فَحَدَّثْتُ بِهَذَا الْحَدِيثِ الْعَلَاءَ بْنَ سُفْيَانَ الْغَسَّانِيَّ ، فَقَالَ : بَلَغَنِي أَنَّ الْفَوَاحِشَ الَّتِي حَرَّمَ اللهُ تَعَالَى فِيمَا بَطَنَ مِمَّا لَمْ يَتَبَيَّنْ ذِكْرُهَا فِي الْقُرْآنِ أَنْ يَتَزَوَّجَ الرَّجُلُ الْمَرْأَةَ ، فَإِذَا قَدُمَتْ صُحْبَتُهَا ، وَطَالَ عَهْدُهَا ، وَنَفَضَتْ مَا فِي بَطْنِهَا - طَلَّقَهَا مِنْ غَيْرِ رِيبَةٍ .
رَوَى ابْنُ مَاجَهْ مِنْهُ : " إِنَّ اللهَ يُوصِيكُمْ بِأُمَّهَاتِكُمْ " مِنْ وَجْهٍ آخَرَ عَنِ الْمِقْدَامِ .
إِنَّ الرَّجُلَ مِنْ أَهْلِ الْكِتَابَيْنِ يَتَزَوَّجُ الْمَرْأَةَ وَمَا يَعْلَمُ مَا لَهُ بِهَا مِنَ الْخَيْرِ ، فَمَا يَرْغَبُ وَاحِدٌ مِنْهُمَا عَنْ صَاحِبِهِ حَتَّى يَمُوتَا هَرَمًا " .
قَالَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ : فَحَدَّثْتُ بِهَذَا الْحَدِيثِ الْعَلَاءَ بْنَ سُفْيَانَ الْغَسَّانِيَّ ، فَقَالَ : بَلَغَنِي أَنَّ الْفَوَاحِشَ الَّتِي حَرَّمَ اللهُ تَعَالَى فِيمَا بَطَنَ مِمَّا لَمْ يَتَبَيَّنْ ذِكْرُهَا فِي الْقُرْآنِ أَنْ يَتَزَوَّجَ الرَّجُلُ الْمَرْأَةَ ، فَإِذَا قَدُمَتْ صُحْبَتُهَا ، وَطَالَ عَهْدُهَا ، وَنَفَضَتْ مَا فِي بَطْنِهَا - طَلَّقَهَا مِنْ غَيْرِ رِيبَةٍ .
رَوَى ابْنُ مَاجَهْ مِنْهُ : " إِنَّ اللهَ يُوصِيكُمْ بِأُمَّهَاتِكُمْ " مِنْ وَجْهٍ آخَرَ عَنِ الْمِقْدَامِ .
It is narrated from Sayyiduna al-Miqdam bin Ma'dikarib (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) stood up among the people (to address them), praised and glorified Allah Almighty, and then said: "Indeed Allah Almighty enjoins you to treat women well! Allah enjoins you to do good to women! Allah enjoins you to be well-wishers of women! Allah enjoins you to maintain ties with your mothers, your fathers, your brothers, your paternal aunts and your maternal aunts."
(It was then further mentioned that) a man of the People of the Book marries a woman, and he does not (fully) know the good that will come to him through her; yet neither of them shows aversion to the other until both of them die in old age.
Abu Salamah said: When I narrated this hadith to al-Ala' bin Sufyan al-Ghassani, he said: It has reached me that among the hidden indecencies which Allah Almighty has forbidden by saying "and what is concealed" [Al-An'am: 151], and which are not explicitly detailed in the Qur'an, is that a man marries a woman, and then, when her companionship has grown old, the relationship has become long, and she has (by bearing children) been relieved of the trust of her womb, he divorces her without any legal fault or doubt, merely out of aversion.
Imam Ibn Majah narrated this part of the hadith, "Indeed Allah enjoins you concerning your mothers", through another chain from Sayyiduna al-Miqdam (may Allah be pleased with him).
(It was then further mentioned that) a man of the People of the Book marries a woman, and he does not (fully) know the good that will come to him through her; yet neither of them shows aversion to the other until both of them die in old age.
Abu Salamah said: When I narrated this hadith to al-Ala' bin Sufyan al-Ghassani, he said: It has reached me that among the hidden indecencies which Allah Almighty has forbidden by saying "and what is concealed" [Al-An'am: 151], and which are not explicitly detailed in the Qur'an, is that a man marries a woman, and then, when her companionship has grown old, the relationship has become long, and she has (by bearing children) been relieved of the trust of her womb, he divorces her without any legal fault or doubt, merely out of aversion.
Imam Ibn Majah narrated this part of the hadith, "Indeed Allah enjoins you concerning your mothers", through another chain from Sayyiduna al-Miqdam (may Allah be pleased with him).
