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Al-Matalib al-'Aliyah 1641 — Encouragement to marry

وَقَالَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ : حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ مُرَّةَ ، عَنْ أَبِي الْبَخْتَرِيِّ قَالَ : إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ فِي أَشْيَاءَ يُؤْجَرُ فِيهَا الرَّجُلُ ، حَتَّى فِي غَشَيَانِ أَهْلِهِ ، فَقِيلَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ ، كَيْفَ وَهِيَ شَهْوَتُهُ يَقْضِيهَا ؟ قَالَ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أَرَأَيْتُمْ لَوْ كَانَ حَرَامٌ ، أَلَيْسَ كَانَ يُؤْزَرُ ؟ " ، قَالُوا : بَلَى ، قَالَ : " فَكَذَلِكَ يُؤْجَرُ ".
It is narrated from Abu al-Bakhtari (may Allah have mercy on him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) mentioned various matters for which a person is rewarded, to the point that he receives a reward even for being intimate with his wife. It was asked: O Messenger of Allah, how can that be, when by this act he is merely fulfilling his own desire? He (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "What do you think: if he did this act in a forbidden way, would he not incur sin?" The Companions said: Yes, certainly he would. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Likewise he is rewarded (for fulfilling his desire in a lawful way)."
From this blessed hadith a great principle is derived: when a person intends, through what is lawful, to avoid what is forbidden and to remain chaste, even his natural and worldly affairs are turned into worship that earns reward.
Hadith Reference المطالب العالية بزوائد المسانيد الثمانية / كتاب النكاح / 1641
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