It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abi Bakr (may Allah be pleased with them both) that "The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) separated a virgin girl from her husband, because her father had married her off while she was unwilling." And the narrator says: "It was the blessed practice of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) that whenever he wished to marry off one of his daughters, he would come to her curtain and say: 'So-and-so is mentioning so-and-so (the daughter) (that is, proposing marriage).'"
Hadith Referenceالمطالب العالية بزوائد المسانيد الثمانية / كتاب النكاح / 1583
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:إسناده صحيح، مرسل
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