مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد
Majma' al-Zawa'id
كتاب الأدب
Book of Manners
بَابُ الِاعْتِذَارِ
Offering apologies
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عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ، عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - قَالَ :
" مَنِ اعْتَذَرَ إِلَى أَخِيهِ فَلَمْ يَعْذُرْ ، أَوْ لَمْ يَقْبَلْ عُذْرَهُ ، كَانَ عَلَيْهِ مِثْلُ خَطِيئَةِ صَاحِبِ مَكْسٍ " .
قَالَ أَبُو الزُّبَيْرِ : وَالْمِكَاسُ : الْعِشَارُ .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْأَوْسَطِ ، وَفِيهِ إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ أَعْيَنَ وَهُوَ ضَعِيفٌ .
" مَنِ اعْتَذَرَ إِلَى أَخِيهِ فَلَمْ يَعْذُرْ ، أَوْ لَمْ يَقْبَلْ عُذْرَهُ ، كَانَ عَلَيْهِ مِثْلُ خَطِيئَةِ صَاحِبِ مَكْسٍ " .
قَالَ أَبُو الزُّبَيْرِ : وَالْمِكَاسُ : الْعِشَارُ .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْأَوْسَطِ ، وَفِيهِ إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ أَعْيَنَ وَهُوَ ضَعِيفٌ .
Sayyiduna Jabir bin Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Whoever offers an excuse to his brother and he does not accept his excuse (the narrator has a doubt about one word here), then upon him is a sin like that of one who collects tax (that is, extortion)." Abu al-Zubayr said: Al-makkas means al-'ashshar (that is, the one who collects the tenth, an extortioner).
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. Its chain contains a narrator, Ibrahim bin A'yan, and he is da'if (weak).
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. Its chain contains a narrator, Ibrahim bin A'yan, and he is da'if (weak).
وَعَنْ جَابِرٍ - رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ - قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - :
" مَنِ تُنُصِّلَ إِلَيْهِ فَلَمْ يَقْبَلْ ، لَمْ يَرِدْ عَلَى الْحَوْضِ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْأَوْسَطِ ، وَفِيهِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ قُتَيْبَةَ الرِّفَاعِيُّ وَهُوَ ضَعِيفٌ .
" مَنِ تُنُصِّلَ إِلَيْهِ فَلَمْ يَقْبَلْ ، لَمْ يَرِدْ عَلَى الْحَوْضِ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْأَوْسَطِ ، وَفِيهِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ قُتَيْبَةَ الرِّفَاعِيُّ وَهُوَ ضَعِيفٌ .
Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Whoever has someone declare his innocence before him (or offer an apology to him) and does not accept it, will not come to me at my Pool (Hawd)."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. Its chain contains a narrator, Ali bin Qutaybah al-Rifa'i, and he is da'if (weak).
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. Its chain contains a narrator, Ali bin Qutaybah al-Rifa'i, and he is da'if (weak).
وَعَنْ عَائِشَةَ - رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا - عَنِ النَّبِيِّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - قَالَ :
" عِفُّوا تَعِفَّ نِسَاؤُكُمْ ، وَبَرُّوا آبَاءَكُمْ تَبَرُّكُمْ أَبْنَاؤُكُمْ ، وَمَنِ اعْتَذَرَ إِلَى أَخِيهِ الْمُسْلِمِ مِنْ شَيْءٍ بَلَغَهُ عَنْهُ ، فَلَمْ يَقْبَلْ عُذْرَهُ ، لَمْ يَرِدْ عَلَى الْحَوْضِ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْأَوْسَطِ ، وَفِيهِ خَالِدُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ الْعُمَرِيُّ وَهُوَ كَذَّابٌ .
" عِفُّوا تَعِفَّ نِسَاؤُكُمْ ، وَبَرُّوا آبَاءَكُمْ تَبَرُّكُمْ أَبْنَاؤُكُمْ ، وَمَنِ اعْتَذَرَ إِلَى أَخِيهِ الْمُسْلِمِ مِنْ شَيْءٍ بَلَغَهُ عَنْهُ ، فَلَمْ يَقْبَلْ عُذْرَهُ ، لَمْ يَرِدْ عَلَى الْحَوْضِ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْأَوْسَطِ ، وَفِيهِ خَالِدُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ الْعُمَرِيُّ وَهُوَ كَذَّابٌ .
Sayyidah Aishah Siddiqah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Remain chaste and your women will remain chaste; be dutiful to your forefathers and your children will be dutiful to you. Whoever offers an excuse to his Muslim brother for something about him that has reached him, and that other person does not accept his excuse, then he (that other person) will not come to my Pool (Hawd)."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. Its chain contains a narrator, Khalid bin Zayd al-Umari, and he is a kadhdhab (liar).
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. Its chain contains a narrator, Khalid bin Zayd al-Umari, and he is a kadhdhab (liar).
