At-Tabarani recorded these words in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat: Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) proposed to Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) for Sayyidah Umm Kulthum (may Allah be pleased with her), and Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) said: She is still very young. The narrator says: Then he mentioned the whole narration, further on in which are these words: Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) said to Sayyiduna Hasan (may Allah be pleased with him) and Sayyiduna Husayn (may Allah be pleased with him): Marry her to your uncle! The two of them said: She is a woman; she may choose for herself whatever she wishes. Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) stood up in anger, and Sayyiduna Hasan (may Allah be pleased with him) took hold of his garment and said: O dear father! We cannot bear to be cut off from you.
Al-Bazzar recorded something similar, with the story of Sayyiduna Aqil (may Allah be pleased with him) abridged. Other hadiths of this kind will come in the chapter on virtues (Manaqib).
Hadith Referenceمجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7431