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مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد
Majma' al-Zawa'id
كتاب الزهد
Book of Asceticism
بَابُ أَحْبِبْ حَبِيبَكَ هَوْنًا مَا عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ بَغِيضَكَ يَوْمًا مَا ، وَكَذَلِكَ بَابُ تَنَقِّهِ وَتَوَقِّهِ .
Love your beloved moderately, for he may become your enemy one day, and likewise the chapter on testing and being wary of people
Majma al-Zawaid — Hadith 17978
اُردوEn
وَعَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مَسْعُودٍ قَالَ : الْمُؤْمِنُ يَأْلَفُ وَيُؤْلَفُ ، وَلَا خَيْرَ فِيمَنْ لَا يَأْلَفُ وَلَا يُؤْلَفُ . رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْكَبِيرِ ، وَفِيهِ الْمَسْعُودِيُّ ، وَقَدِ اخْتَلَطَ ، وَبَقِيَّةُ رِجَالِهِ رِجَالُ الصَّحِيحِ . قُلْتُ : وَقَدْ تَقَدَّمَ هَذَانِ الْبَابَانِ فِي كِتَابِ الْأَدَبِ ، وَكَذَلِكَ بَابُ أَحْبِبْ حَبِيبَكَ هَوْنًا مَا عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ بَغِيضَكَ يَوْمًا مَا ، وَكَذَلِكَ بَابُ تَنَقِّهِ وَتَوَقِّهِ .
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) says: "The believer shows affection and is shown affection, and there is no good in one who neither shows affection nor is shown affection."
Imam al-Tabarani recorded this narration in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir; its chain contains a narrator, al-Mas'udi, who suffered from confusion (ikhtilat), and the remaining narrators of this narration are the narrators of the Sahih. (Allamah Haythami says:) I say: These two chapters have already passed in the Book of Etiquette; likewise the chapter: "Love your friend moderately, for perhaps one day he may become one you dislike"; and likewise the chapter: "Tanaqqahu wa tawaqqahu (Examine him and be wary of him)."
Imam al-Tabarani recorded this narration in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir; its chain contains a narrator, al-Mas'udi, who suffered from confusion (ikhtilat), and the remaining narrators of this narration are the narrators of the Sahih. (Allamah Haythami says:) I say: These two chapters have already passed in the Book of Etiquette; likewise the chapter: "Love your friend moderately, for perhaps one day he may become one you dislike"; and likewise the chapter: "Tanaqqahu wa tawaqqahu (Examine him and be wary of him)."
