In one narration the words are: "Whenever I attended a funeral, I kept thinking: What will he say? And what will be said to him?"
Al-Tabarani recorded it with two chains: one of them is transmitted from Abu Salamah as a "mursal" narration, and the other from al-Majishun as a "munqati'" (broken) narration, and its chain contains a narrator whom I do not know.
Hadith Referenceمجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب المناقب / 15690
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:إسنادہ ضعیف
Hadith Takhrij«اخرجه الطبراني فى المعجم الكبير (5322)»